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Friday Sep 03, 2021
Billy Graham? Really?
Friday Sep 03, 2021
Friday Sep 03, 2021
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Billy Graham is our generations greatest evangelist. He preached to millions and who knows how many came to Christ through his ministry.
I have always thought it somewhat puzzling that this Godly man was asked to meet with Presidents (some who were not so Godly) with Athletic superstars, Rock Stars, movie stars… and they all loved him.
He would preach to a stadium of thousands…
But what always blew me away was that is preaching was just ok… There I said it. he was not a captivating riveting speaker by any means. In fact I found him quite simple, sometimes… here I go… Boring. But he always had results.
But he was just like you and me in more ways than you might think…
As a senior in high school, a young Billy Graham found himself in a dark classroom with a girl who begged Graham to make love to her. Instead of rounding the bases, Graham made like Joseph and ran away.
- In 1937 Billy Graham fell in love with Emily Cavanaugh and proposed to her in the summer. She had to think about it and eventually said yes in the fall. But by 1938 she was having second thoughts and in the spring she dumped Billy Graham for one of his classmates, Charles Massey.
- Graham gave a Ted Talk in 1998
Graham once went skinny-dipping with President Lyndon Johnson.
- The first time Billy Graham shared his testimony was with a group of about 10 prisoners. The experience “reinforced my conviction that I would never become a preacher.”
- Billy Graham attended Bob Jones University for one semester and upon leaving, Bob Jones Sr. predicted nothing but failure for Billy Graham.
- Graham’s first formal sermon lasted eight minutes and included all four sermons he had prepared.
In the 1970s Billy attended various rock festivals, protests, and love-ins in order to better understand and connect with young people. To maintain anonymity, he attended “incognito” (meaning he donned a hat, sunglasses, and a big sweater).
Billy Graham was one of the few Americans who could get mail simply addressed, “Billy Graham, America.”
But what made him stand out… it wasn’t because of his speaking or preaching ability.
2 major things…
First: His integrity and character was impeccable. That is why even the secular world had such great respect for him.
But mostly…
He stands out for the same reason you can stand out as well.
Preach the gospel.
Jesus Christ the son of God died for your sins.
He is the only way to have a relationship with God the Father.
You must accept his forgiveness and give your life to him.
You don’t need to belabor the point with people.

Thursday Sep 02, 2021
I don‘t care and I have the scars to prove it
Thursday Sep 02, 2021
Thursday Sep 02, 2021
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Nobody likes a backseat driver, no one wants to hear about how tough you are unless you have scars to prove it, no one cares how much you bench unless we see it or some trophies, nobody cares how great of a cook you are until we can taste it.
Shut up until we actually see you do it, live it, be it!
Lets be honest right now we are living in a time where everyone has an opinion, a platform to whine, complain, argue and even spout off like an expert with no real background to back it up.
So I don’t want to take on the issues of today per se, like COVID, The president, BLM, China etc….
But where can we draw the line! When do we just walk away and ignore people? Or maybe even tell them off… and if we do OR if we can- how do we… and is it biblical?
Well lets look at Galatians - Paul wrote this book.
Galatians has always been among those Pauline epistles least challenged on the issue of authorship. Paul wrote to the churches in southern Galatia after having a hand in starting them on his first missionary journey to Asia Minor. Paul’s close relationship to these churches helps to explain the extremely strong tone he took with them from the very beginning of the letter. Galatians exhibits Paul at his angriest, as he risked the good favor of the converts in those churches to make sure they were on the path of truth and not led off into deception. In fact, to emphasize the seriousness of his purpose, he took the pen from his scribe and wrote the end of the letter himself in large letters
The churches had some issues going on… Mainly some converts started to emphasize the law and basically saying we must earn our salvation… even after Paul had preached and given them the beautiful understanding of the gospel, gods grace and his provision… Others emphasized just the opposite and that because we are saved by grace we can continue on into a life of sin. TALK ABOUT A YING YANG problem.
*isn’t that just like religious people… they will still pervert the gospel - they will argue their point, try to impress you with why they are right.
Things haven’t change much have they? Seems like everyone has an opinion.
So where am I going with this?
I have shared this thought many times but a verse in Galatians 6 at the end of the chapter reminded me of this point.
Unless you are winning people for Christ, having to deal with some type of persecution… maybe laughed at, or you put your reputation on the line or you don’t mind looking foolish (and do so on a regular basis) or you risk faith in praying for the sick, lost and again this is out on your daily routine… LET ME PUT IT THIS WAY… YOU ARE LIVING IT AND YOU ARE SEEING FRUIT!
So many times I ask people who want to argue with me… how many people have you shared Christ with this week, this month? How many have you led to Christ? How many have you prayed for healing? HOW MANY?
Because if its not more than a couple… I don’t care what you have to say. Don’t bother me.
is this attitude wrong? Well lets take a look at what Paul writes at the end of this letter and he is angry and even picks up the pen and says I am writing this in my own handwriting and in big letters… like in caps right?
Gal. 6:17
NIV 17 From now on, let no one cause me trouble, for I bear on my body the marks of Jesus.
Galatians 6 Message
17 Quite frankly, I don’t want to be bothered anymore by these disputes. I have far more important things to do—the serious living of this faith. I bear in my body scars from my service to Jesus.
Look, there are a few ways to look at this verse.
First off, if you are living for jesus and really living a life of faith and putting it on the line every day… then quit worrying about everyone else and their opinion and what they are getting caught up in.
And there is the more obtuse and yet i believe still biblical thought of just calling people out.
I have in the recent past told someone their opinion means nothing to me because they do not live out their faith, they simply argue their flawed theological ideals. Until you actually start telling people about jesus, telling them the beautiful salvation message and start actually leading people to Christ… and bonus - you are praying for people out in public and seeing healings and getting words of knowledge… I do not care about what you have to say about the bible, your insights to scripture and please do not argue with me about my theological beliefs.
Finally… are you that guy? That girl? Do you have scars to share? Do you have stories of being harassed for your faith, made fun of, maybe even taken some pain… my wife had someone try to light her hair on fire when we were out witnessing. Live a life of faith that gives you some scars, some stories, some battle tested insights and testimonies.

Wednesday Sep 01, 2021
Don‘t listen to them
Wednesday Sep 01, 2021
Wednesday Sep 01, 2021
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Patrick Bet-David story
Nehemiah 4 When Sanballat heard that we were rebuilding the wall, he became angry and was greatly incensed. He ridiculed the Jews, 2 and in the presence of his associates and the army of Samaria, he said, “What are those feeble Jews doing? Will they restore their wall? Will they offer sacrifices? Will they finish in a day? Can they bring the stones back to life from those heaps of rubble—burned as they are?”
3 Tobiah the Ammonite, who was at his side, said, “What they are building—even a fox climbing up on it would break down their wall of stones!”
4 Hear us, our God, for we are despised. Turn their insults back on their own heads. Give them over as plunder in a land of captivity. 5 Do not cover up their guilt or blot out their sins from your sight, for they have thrown insults in the face of[b] the builders.
Who is telling you that you can’t do it?
Do what?
Business, family, money, spiritual measures of maturity, Physical feats, Creations, upstarts, entrepreneurship…
Who is telling you?
Family, friends, the media, the mind, the past, the words spoken over you as a child, the financial institution…
What are they telling you?
You are to dumb, old, slow, you don’t know the right people, Your project or business is flawed stupid or not needed, You won’t get funding, No one will buy it, the relationships you are working on will never heal, you will never manifest the spiritual dreams you have or the walk you want with Jesus…
It does not matter what, who or why.
What matters is you know God, you seek his direction and you give your plans to him.
So I have been working on a business plan… about 3 years ago I walked into a apple store and met a young man who’s dad had started something along the line that I wanted to do but in a different venue. He said well let me get your email and I will have him reach out to you.
Long story short nothing happened of it. I continued to figure out how to do this business… and kept running into dead ends…
Low and behold I get an email from this kids father… long story short - he was a great man of faith, very successful and he guided me into every area and arena I needed to get this thing going. The stories behind it and the miracles behind it go on and on etc…
I bet if you look over your history you will see how Gods hand has had its way in your life… if you hung on and waited.
Think of Joseph who was sold into slavery and waited years to see his family and to forgive them and pay them back with kindness… oh yea and for them to see that he is now a pretty big deal.
Don’t give up, give more
Dont quit, just quit trying to figure it out
Don’t lose heart, lose yourself in your dream
Don’t worry, Work
Don’t delay, decide and do
Don’t listen to critics, listen to stories of victory
Don’t let others bring you down, rather bring them up

Tuesday Aug 31, 2021
There has got to be more
Tuesday Aug 31, 2021
Tuesday Aug 31, 2021
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I love a well coached Football team
I love basketball dunks
I love great cream filled donuts
I love love karate
I love great paintings
I love beautiful tattoos
I love a well trained guard dog…
But here is a secret… I can’t do any of those!
And guess what… thats your problem too!
Ever wonder why you don’t have as much influence and power to change people as you would like… and yes I am speaking specifically as a spiritual leader i.e. follower of Christ.
I know sometimes we pray for more influence, more power more miracles, signs and wonders. A deeper understanding of God…
Transition…
You know as I have read biographies of some of the greatest men of God. Charles Finney, Spurgeon, Smith Wigglesworth, John G. Lake, Billy Graham, The list could go on and on. One thing I have noticed with these great men of God is that they all came to a reckoning of their need for God… let me put it another way… they all came to an end, a hunger and desire that created a spiritual pit in them where they knew that if they were going to be used by God in the way they wanted- they would have to be leveled by his Spirit and changed in a way that went beyond their initial conversion.
They saw their holes, their flaws and their little foxes… and it finally bothered them in such a way that it drew them to an all out “give me God or give me death”.
What is funny is that when you study the greats of the old and new testament they all have similar stories. They all have stories where it’s God or nothing. They have all been led to times in their lives where its beyond hard… it literally comes to a decision of what do you really want and what are you willing to do it. Do you really want to be more like Christ? that is a question you must ask daily and long term.
So I am on a quest as of late… I want God to show up even more in my life, in my family in my ministry… out in public with me. And God has kindly pulled back the veil to my heart and asked me a simple question “how bad do you want it”? I am learning to give him permission to strip away from me anything in my life that would stand in the way. Deal with the little sins, the little lapses of faith and the times my flesh just wants to sleep, walk away or ignore his small voice.
And here is what I have learned more than anything… it starts in my mind. I must get my mind inline with scripture in every little detail. I must catch myself when I have even the little, most tiny thought that is unGodly.
Im not sure why I am on this venture… why I am pushing in more… maybe it is because I truly see our country as unGodly as I have ever seen it, I see pastors more inspired to push their brand than Jesus. Maybe it is because I truly believe we are in the end times… and maybe just maybe I am tired of feeling like I am not as much like Jesus as I should be.
I love football, basketball dunks, great donuts, karate, painting, well trained dogs… But I can’t do any of those so I am left to spectate…
I am realizing more then ever I can’t have a greater impact on others the world or even my own family… in fact anything beyond what I am capable of just makes me a spectator… unless I step away from the spectator phase and ask God to teach me and take me to a new level where I can go beyond watching and step into living.

Monday Aug 30, 2021
Choose option A
Monday Aug 30, 2021
Monday Aug 30, 2021
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You should have taken option A. In the movie the Run Down with the Rock at the very beginning he is shaking down a big time quarterback for a gambling debt. He has to take out his whole offensive line in doing so… When he grabs the Quarterback and takes his ring the QB says “what’s with all the hostility? The Rock answers you should have taken option A.
When we are attacked we have two options.
- respond in love
- Respond in the flesh
Today we are going to learn about how to keep people from ramping up and attacking us more and more…
Now people will attack you verbally on social media, and sometimes in person, but almost always - never in person.
So what do you do when someone attacks your opinion, your stance your beliefs or your motives?
Well first off lets realize that social media is a breeding ground for so called experts, bullies and the insecure… that being said… it still doesn’t change how we should react.
Proverbs 15:1 says
A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.
Weakness of undeveloped character… Or you lack experience… what does that mean? It means you do not have the understanding from where they are at to appropriately respond - so just respond in love.
Wrath - literally means heat. You will turn down the heat by simply and gently responding in love.
But a harsh word stirs up anger… it will heat it up!
Verse 2
The tongue of the wise adorns knowledge, but the mouth of the fool gushes folly.
Proverbs is very specific here in how to deal with the haters in the world.
Understand you don’t know where they are coming from.
Don’t pour gas on it. Simply resend in love.
Then verse 2 A wise man will admire knowledge and even encourage it… while the fool will continue to gush evil.
The word folly used here actually comes from the root word evil.
So let me break this down and simplify it.
You post something on social media.
Someone attacks your post or misrepresent you with their comments reading into what you said.
Your response is first internally…
I am not sure who hurt this person and why they are responding this way.
Verbally or at least in writing a response you admire their opinion and love them. Then when other opinions come into the picture that are wise you encourage that thought…
If others disagree with it they will promote evil by their response.
So practically my life on social media…
I honestly do not post things about me or that I think are inflammatory… In fact I am always surprised at what some people take offense to… thats fine.
Anyway… my goal is to always keep communication open to share Jesus - and yes that is even to some so called Christians or those Christians who do not exemplify Christ.
So here is a real life example: I posted a picture of a permit to carry class we had last year. We do it for one reason and one reason only - we know it will draw in our community and we can give them a free class and then tell them about Jesus. We have in fact had over 124 people come to Christ due to these classes. But this particular picture people blew up over… no masks… no social distancing, etc…
People lost their minds…
Now I could have ranted on a few points… we told everyone it would be a packed event, non covid friendly, wear a mask if you want one etc…
I could have said “this is about rejoicing in those that came to Christ”.
I could have said things like grow up, you nazis… LOL, or whatever.
What did I say? Not a thing.
That was my response in love.
There are times I have posts blow up and I simply tell people ‘hey thanks for your response, I love the exchange of ideas.
Sometimes when it is a regular “Troll” and yes I have those… I will say “I love you Bobby, right on time… you did not disappoint.”
I just refuse to respond in anger- it will not bring them closer to jesus.
I recently had a post and those who responded to it were people I know. I could have said thing about their past that I know and said well you are responding this way because of this in your past…
NOPE not going to do it.
Bottom line is this: My response leads to so many great conversations. I have hundreds of people private message me and ask me things like, how can you stay so calm, how can you not strike back, or they might even be the people who attacked me, but due to my response will PM me and ask me to pray for them or ask me about my thoughts…
Love always wins.
Are you able to love those who hate you?
Its a great goal to achieve! It is Christ embodied.

Friday Aug 27, 2021

Wednesday Aug 25, 2021

Tuesday Aug 24, 2021
How to be miserable!
Tuesday Aug 24, 2021
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How to hate your life… or at least be miserable most of the time.
Compare.
Why do we compare? Because we have forgotten what happiness is… for ourselves. What I mean is happiness, is different for each of us.
Im not talking about fulfillment… that only comes from Jesus, but if we want to be happy, at least most of the time we need to learn how to not compare.
Social media and media in general is evil. Its a liar. It is a mental swamp that slowly perverts and drowns what is actually important in our lives.
So I asked myself when have I been the most happiest in the past year.
Easy… When I was with my family and my best friends. We were not doing anything crazy - we were not on vacations or bear hunting or driving sports cars or whatever you might think. We - that would be me and my family were just hanging out talking, laughing and enjoying food and maybe a good cup of coffee or a glass of wine. My best of friends… same thing. Hanging out talking, laughing and ok, maybe shooting some guns. But we did not have perfect buns, bulging biceps, driving exotic cars or vacationing in Italy eating gelato.
So why are we not happy?
Think about it for a second… social media is for two reasons and really only two reasons. To sell you stuff and to sell you stuff.
What do I mean? One is to actually sell you stuff that you think will make you happy. Shirts, gadgets, services, shoes, drinks, potions… whatever it might be.
Second thing it sells you is what life is supposed to look like. Social media says, you must be beautiful or muscle bound, have great looking friends, do amazing and daring stuff, eat great food and have daily adventures that make life a buzz and treat!
Habit,
Many of us use social media like a nookie.
Ever have a kid that has to have his nookie? You try as hard as you can to break him of it, but they need it. You think you need social media simply because it has been a habit.
And it may actually be the worst habit you can have… why?
Social media may promote negative experiences such as:
Inadequacy about your life or appearance. Even if you know that images you’re viewing on social media are manipulated, they can still make you feel insecure about how you look or what’s going on in your own life. Similarly, we’re all aware that other people tend to share just the highlights of their lives, rarely the low points that everyone experiences.
Fear of missing out (FOMO).
Isolation. A study at the University of Pennsylvania found that high usage of Facebook, Snapchat, and Instagram increases rather decreases feelings of loneliness. Conversely, the study found that reducing social media usage can actually make you feel less lonely and isolated and improve your overall wellbeing.
Depression and anxiety. Human beings need face-to-face contact to be mentally healthy. Nothing reduces stress and boosts your mood faster or more effectively than eye-to-eye contact with someone who cares about you. The more you prioritize social media interaction over in-person relationships, the more you’re at risk for developing or exacerbating mood disorders such as anxiety and depression.
Self-absorption. Sharing endless selfies and all your innermost thoughts on social media can create an unhealthy self-centeredness and distance you from real-life connections.
So do yourself a favor and boost your happiness by going on a social media fast for a couple days, a week maybe even a month. You might be surprised just how freeing it is.
and in the meantime do what scripture tells believers to do. Meet regularly, eat, talk jesus, tell stories, pray together and enjoy what God has done. Trust me- happiness is just around the corner!

Monday Aug 23, 2021
Fail again and again and again...
Monday Aug 23, 2021
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Train your mind to see opportunities.
I was thinking about the Disciple Peter and how he and all the disciples came from simple beginnings and how all of them completely changed their minds… Yes Jesus changed their lives, but he also helped them change their minds. They all had negative and unhealthy beginnings to some degree and they could have all stayed in that rut of being who they though they were… but God was able to radically change them and also their futures.
The I headed off to the gym. My goal at the gym is to build relationships and then tell people about Jesus. A work out is second… trust me there are days I don’t work out at the gym, but I do get to share Christ… and its worth it. So I have been working on 2 men from Trinidad, who are Muslim. We have become friends even though we drastically differ on most beliefs. However today we were talking about why they moved to the States. The one man who is 37 said “I wanted to make a better life for myself”. I asked him what he thought about people who say they are being held back because of color of skin, or limited opportunities etc… (and yes these brothers are black). He laughed and said it is just a matter of seeing opportunities and not road blocks. He then said when he and his brother came over they started working for a moving company simply to learn about how to run a moving company. In 2 years they saved all their money and bought their own truck. They now own 4 trucks, and are looking at buying 2 more. Now here is the crazy thing… he left Trinidad and had a job as an engineer… but he said there were no opportunities. He said he looked, but truly they were all limited.
So now he and his brother are starting 2 more businesses. he said its simple, you just work, save up your money, learn about the business and start small… saving all your money and putting it back into the business.
I know we often think that people don’t change. I know I have met enough people that make you truly wonder “can anybody truly change?”
But it made my come up with a simple list of how to change.
First you must change your mindset. How? By what you choose to focus on. If I said every time you see something red you owe me a dollar… it would drive you crazy… if I said every time you see red I owe YOU a dollar, it would make you joyous and delighted every time you saw red. What changed? Just the fact that you saw one as a problem and another as an opportunity.
Phil. 4:7And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. 8 Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable— if anything is excellent or praiseworthy— think on these things. 9Whatever you have learned or received or heard from me, or seen in me, put it into practice. And the God of peace will be with you.…
But catch the whole meaning… peace will guard your hearts when you focus on the right things… and learn from others what to focus on.
Second, take chances, Risk it, learn to use your faith. Now I am not talking about random stupid choices. But rather choices built on Gods word and by the measure of faith he has given you. The more you use your faith (whether things turn out good or bad) The more it grows, matures… leans out you might say.
Number 3
Cut off negative people. you may have to walk away from family, friends, co workers… and more. But if they are not encouraging you, building you up, increasing your faith… you need to step away… maybe not forever but until you have the mental tenacity to stay focused, positive and believe in yourself regardless of who says otherwise!
Lisa Nichols… one of the highest paid motivational speakers in the world… had to do this. It was hard, but necessary in order to achieve her dreams in record time.
Finally, Revel in failure.
I have stories of how many times I have failed in business, relationships, ideas, heck even in the gym I have stories of failing… But I have learned to revel and enjoy them because I know I have grown from all of them. Every time someone cuts me down and makes fun of me failing I say thank you for the motivation and I would love for you to tell me the last time you failed…. typically silence. Because they have never tried, or they have failed and buried it…or they lie and make it sound like they have never failed.
People don’t succeed simply because they get tired of failing.
Here is the dirty little secret… I am going to tell you the straight up truth. If you really truly want to be successful it is always this easy to understand: Ready?
Success is simply a numbers game.
the more you try, the more you fail until you succeed.
You want bigger successes? Then fail bigger faster.
Thats not only true in the physical world but also the spiritual one as well.
Train your brain to take the pain and grab the gain!
Gymshark sold for 1.5 billion dollars… it was started by a young punk kid who started it as a teenager…at 28 walked away with 1.5 billion dollars… guess what? He had 9 jobs at the time and one was a pizza delivery guy. he owned the other 8 and they were all just meh…
He failed numerous times and then one day BOOM.

Friday Aug 20, 2021
Why are you offended?
Friday Aug 20, 2021
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Matt. 24:10-13 in the end times many will become offended and grow cold in the faith.
What causes a spirit of offense?
1. Unrealistic Expectations
What are your bosses expectations… and by that I mean wife!
- Your husband
- your kids
- Your parents
- Your in laws
- Your neighbors
- Your pastor
I told my boys friends after a few visits… you are now expected to get your own food, drink snacks… Don’t ask permission - just eat!
2. Our own Wounded Spirit
When we understand who we are in Christ and surrender to a life following Jesus, we are able to start working through our wounds and not use them as a filter to judge others.
3. Holding on to Things too Long
Sometimes we are insulted and we just have to shake it off. Keep things in perspective. Friendships are valuable and it is helpful if we acquire the skill of letting things go.
1 Peter 4:8 love covers a multitude of sins…
multitude - all the little things
4. Assuming a Negative Intent
I have gotten better at not assuming another person’s intent. I am trying to believe that they did not mean what I interpreted. I try to give them the benefit of the doubt.
Edna Roberts holding pictures up - negative stories.

