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Friday Jul 09, 2021
Friday Jul 09, 2021
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Jesus t-shirt!
Mindsets!
Wiener
Whiner
Wanker
Warrior
Winner
Warrior
This seems like a great mindset… and don’t get me wrong it is. I typically have a warrior mindset. However one major flaw we have is we don’t give up… (the curse of loyalty) well thats good right? Not always. I Planted a church I should have given up on it a long time past it’s prime. I had a job I should have given up on a few years before the boss tapped my phone and fired me. I have had friends who I should have cut out a long time ago, but I just hate giving up. In the end they all cost me money, opportunities and peace of mind. What good is it to be a warrior if you don’t know when and who to fight, and or how long? The longest war in history was the Iberian war lasting 781 years. How can war go on so long? Because war is still profitable. There is a pot of gold that comes with that victory. Wait just a second, ask yourself… how much is the pot of gold worth and at what cost to me? I had a friend who wanted to beat a competitor so badly that he would low ball every bid just to keep this guy from getting any business. Did it work? For a while, but soon it cost him everything.
So you are a warrior. What is worth fighting for in your life? And at what cost? Do you know when to back off and retreat in order to fight another day. Do you know when to give up? There is nothing wrong with giving up or quitting if it is the best way to continue to follow your dream. (you may want to meditate on that one for a second) Dreams don’t come with a “this is the only way” label on them. How many businesses have had to pivot to stay afloat and then they boom because of it. I can name plenty. You might be the next one. Sometimes it is ok to fight until you find another way to win. There are truly very few things worth dying for when I think about it. My faith, my family and…. uh… yea thats about it. I like a good war story, but not if it costs me more than it was worth.
Gal. 6:9 Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.
Mark 6: 11 And if any place will not receive you and they will not listen to you, when you leave, shake off the dust that is on your feet as a testimony against them.”
Thursday Jul 08, 2021
Thursday Jul 08, 2021
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Mindsets!
Wiener
Whiner
Wanker
Warrior
Winner
Ever walk into the bathroom and see that you have some food in your teeth, or a booger hanging out of your nose… I once walked around for 20 minutes at a McDonalds and I had forgotten I had put some of my sisters acne medicine on my face… big white spots all over my face… no one said anything. Please tell me next time.
Whiner
I don’t whine I complain… is there a difference? Yes, maybe whiners have a little more nasal tone than complainers.
There are those who never seem to be satisfied. These are known as chronic complainers. They have a tendency to ruminate on problems and to focus on setbacks over progress. Some research suggests that making a habit of complaining can “re-wire” the brain so that those particular thinking orientations become ingrained. It is possible to re-wire this re-wiring to make it more positive, of course, but chronic complainers probably don’t think it would work all that well.
Some complain simply to bring attention to themselves. It’s all about me… and life is unfair to me. I need you to change XYZ because it’s all about me. Its a mindset of why do bad things always happen to me. They actually don’t see the reality that life happens to everyone- regardless.
I think both of these can also stem from your upbringing. Downer Debby had a mom called Downer Doris. You see life the way your parents saw life.
So what to do? First find out if you are a whiner. Ask those closest to you. Ask your boss, your wife, your friends, your pastor… Why do this? Because most whiners don’t realize they are whiners! When you ask, be ready to hear the truth.
Now simply validate your feelings. What do I mean by that. You can accept that some things in life are hard, and its ok to not like it. But next you must realize everyone has these situations and problems in life. So your next step is crucial…. move on with a solution or move on with your life. Not everything can be fixed, but you can continue to focus on what is most important at hand.
Notice Philippians 2:14 says do all things without grumbling or complaining.
Notice it does not say you will not have things that could cause you to grumble or complain- but simply when those things that seem unfair or wrong happen to you- move on, don’t complain.
Philippians 4:8 Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable--if anything is excellent or praiseworthy--think about such things.
I think what God understands is what scientists are now discovering with neuroplasticity. whatever you think on you will program your mind to naturally fall into that mindset.
If your team is down 8 runs in the bottom of the 9th, do you complain about the weather, the lack of talent, the fact that your best team members are missing, your back is sore…
or do you think about what an amazing comeback this is going to be. what a story you will be able to tell. Its up to you.
Wednesday Jul 07, 2021
Wednesday Jul 07, 2021
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Mindsets!
Wiener
Whiner
Wanker
Warrior
Winner
Wanker - Definition: Someone excessively and annoyingly pretentious and/or false. At the gym the other day… Now before I get into this let me just say when it comes to the gym I attend, there are a few details one must understand about me. It is a big box gym. I know just about everyone. I am asked daily for training advice and give it freely. I used to own a powerlifting gym that was voted number 1 in the country. I never assume or ask why someone is doing a certain exercise a certain way unless they will hurt themselves. So there is a young kid about 16 training a very pretty girlfriend… I only mention that because this kid had insecure arrogant 4 out of 10 stars all over him. But I walked up to them and kindly and jokingly asked if the old guy could give them advice… from the second the sentence left my mouth this kid explained to my what he was doing, why he was doing it and how I didn’t understand. I kindly said “well, if you want to save your knees you might think about doing this”. He again explained to me why I (and about every other strength coach in the world does not know what they are talking about). I smiled and said as serious as I could “wow, I didn’t know that you knew everything, good for you”. And simply walked away. What a Wanker!
You know why most people and I mean 99.99% of most people succeed? They willingly seek out advice from others who are smarter than themselves. It really is that simple. Perseverance is great unless you are headed the wrong way. Reading and studying the competition is great unless you can actually talk to them and or even hire them… so much better. When I was young I thought it was cool to know everything… but nobody else thought it was cool that I KNEW EVERYTHING. I went to a conference and my brother in law and I went to eat lunch. We got a chance to bump into and eat with one of the most renowned speakers in the world regarding theology. (Im a geek). My brother in law plastered him with questions. At one point he smiled and said “thats all I know now, but I hope to continue to learn from more discussions like this”. Look he could have buried by Bro in seconds. But he was kind, calm, reflective and still seeking to learn from us. I walked away from their thinking, “I am going to buy every book this guy has ever written and read them”. And I did. You can learn a lot from really smart people, and sometimes it is simply that you can learn from anyone if you check your ego at the coat rack.
Take this reality check: fill a note book up with a list of things you do not know. The easier it is, the less of a wanker you are.
Now Read this and do it again:
Psalms 139:23 Search me, God, and know my heart; test me and know my anxious thoughts.
Search Gk= intimately and deeply penetrate every area of my life in detail.
anxious Gk - Secret thoughts, unknown to me.
now with God telling you what to work on, begin to pray over these. And keep continuing to work on them.
Tuesday Jul 06, 2021
Tuesday Jul 06, 2021
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Mindsets!
Wiener
Whiner
Wanker
Warrior
Winner
Social media has given everyone a platform to be an expert. But it got me thinking how does Social Media affect the 5 mindsets of men? I mean really, if you don’t know who you are… it can eat you up.
I think I was around 32 years of age when I realized I had never truly studied me. Oh, I have always been a voracious reader… but there are no books out there on Garth Heckman… so I started to really dig into who I was and what my motivation was in life. How I thought, acted, and where it all came from. You know the old saying “an unexamined life is not worth living”. I really took that to heart. So i want to do a little 5 part study on…Mindsets.
Wiener - Even if you looked at all the ingredients in a hot dog and thought “well I am not sure what all this is, but it sounds ok and it tastes good” - you would be disgusted to actually know what those ingredients really are. It is filled with meaningless waste product and filler… truth is you could put just about anything in a wiener and it could be deemed acceptable. This mindset shouldn’t be called a mindset at all but rather a mindshift… you can leave out the “f” if you want. This person listens to everyone. Insecure and easily wavers whenever challenged. They typically agree with the loudest voice in their head or in the room until someone louder shows up. They lack enough self esteem or confidence to think for themselves. Most likely they were kids in a family who had parents do all their thinking for them. They fear failing but not as much as the fear of not being accepted. Some just lack the experience as to how to even find check and balances in making a decision.
What to do if this is you?
Start by asking yourself a few questions: If I make my own decision and I am wrong, what is the worst that can happen? Will I die? Will I get blackballed? Will my parents hate me? Lets be real here for a second- not much of anything will really happen that you can’t overcome. Second question is: Why do you care what people think? Look If I am gong to invest my whole life savings I should probably worry about what my investor thinks about my decision to open a freeze pop stand. However again, most decisions are not that major and don’t need the utmost expert advice. If you are simply doing what others say to do to avoid criticism or failure… it’s going to happen regardless. So you might as well be criticized for being real and genuine!
Final thought. Start by making small decisions that you know might not sit well with others, but you deep down want to make. Like not going to your parents for Thanksgiving and Christmas. Or not going out with the boys and dropping money you don’t have on drink you don’t need. Start small, stretch and see just how good it feels not be a wiener! And by the way, when you get to heaven, Gods not going to ask you why you were not more like your neighbor Todd, he is going to ask why you were not YOU!
Galatians 6:7 Do not be deceived: God cannot be mocked. A man reaps what he sows
What you are eating in life right now is what you have sown into your life.
Are you eating well financially?
Are you eating well physically?
Are you eating well mentally?
Are you eating well spiritually?
If you are then you have sown well. If not, then it is time to start eating right! Sow the best into your life! Don’t be a wiener.
Friday Jul 02, 2021
Friday Jul 02, 2021
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People in their 20’s who think life sucks, or is hard or seems unfair… I just think to myself “wow you have no idea!” Life hasn’t even warmed up yet… thats like the sparring partner of Mike Tyson complaining about how mean Mike is… hold on a second there junior… you aren’t even the enemy… you think thats hard - be glad you are not the opponent - or in Mikes case - the enemy!
What happens in life that for many of us after a few years of being out on our own with our own family we get tired of trying… maybe even cynical. We have lost the art of dreaming or taking chances or risk. Maybe we even start to secretly think life is unfair and we begin to look down on anyone who seems to be living their dreams….
You have to hand it to Jesus… he prepared the disciples. He did not make it sound like it was just going to be sunshine and lollipops. He told them there will be persecution… but he told them to stop when they were persecuted and life got hard… UH NO!
You might miss the fact that Jesus did a great job of promoting a vision of each disciples life and future. He even changed some of their names to reflect that. Peter the Rock, James and John Sons of Thunder! But even in those pictures of who they were going to become he made sure they knew it was not going to be easy!
Danger signs:
You become envious, lazy, cynical or depressed because plans have just not gone according to your dreams or expectations.
Some of us are living in our own man made hell because we are filled with disappointment… and why? Because we were never told that life will be filled with disappointment, failure and hardships…
We love verses like “for I know the plans I have for you, plans to prosper you, and give you hope and a future blah blah blah…
But we also have the balance of scripture… like
Who shall separate us from the love of Christ? Shall tribulation, or distress, or persecution, or famine, or nakedness, or danger, or sword? As it is written,
“For your sake we are being killed all the day long;
we are regarded as sheep to be slaughtered.”
No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us. For I am sure that neither death nor life, nor angels nor rulers, nor things present nor things to come, nor powers, nor height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord.
James 1:2 Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters,[a] whenever you face trials of many kinds, 3 because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance. 4 Let perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything.
When someone has an easier life than you consider the following:
- You don’t know the whole story
- Theirs may just be around the corner
- They don’t have any stories (I can brag on God)
- They lack maturity due to an easy life (my growth has come from hard times)
Are you cynical or Christ centered?
Are you bored or believing
Are you passing on or pushing in
Are you opting out or opening up
Push into God! Yes there will be setbacks… push in anyway!
Wednesday Jun 30, 2021
Wednesday Jun 30, 2021
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Romans 12:2 Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will.
Transformed… metamorphosis. This is the picture of what a caterpillar does in a cocoon. So the caterpillar spends the first part of its life just eating… that’s its job. Then it flips itself upside down and buries itself in a dark cave by its own actions. then it’s whole body basically turns into goo, jelly substance, and then it reforms through transformation into a beautiful butterfly.
What a picture of many of our lives. We are young and stupid and arrogant or maybe just naive. And we just let our appetites take over. At some point our life is turned upside down… our own doing just like the caterpillar. Then in our own actions we bury ourselves in a dark place… and life seems to just simply fall apart… it just turns into a mess. but in that darkness it is possible to transform.
3 things about transformation:
- 1 it is not just in actions alone. We must be transformed in our minds. Telling oneself “I will never do that again” is not enough. We must think it until it becomes a part of our thought pattern.
- 2 We can’t always see the transformation… but don’t quit the process. The Caterpillar is in a dark spot, he can’t see the process taking place, he only feels discomfort and loneliness. Same goes for you. You probably will not see the transformation until it is almost complete… or maybe until someone points it out to you. And remember God is in that darkness with you, he is the one transforming you.
- 3 Even after the transformation the butterfly still has to squeeze out of the cocoon shell in order to flush its wings with blood so it can fly. Look you may be transformed but it does not mean you still won’t go through some hard times… and that will only make what you have become that much more beautiful and create in you even more abilities. No one wants to be transformed simply to look pretty, we want to fly!
As you seek transformation as God… what do you have for me to do for you in this new state of mind. How can I now best serve you in the hard times and the good times.
Wednesday Jun 30, 2021
Wednesday Jun 30, 2021
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Vanity, failure or Complete dependance
Comparison is a thief of joy.
No one is thinking about you… because they are all to worried about what others are thinking about them.
Hike your own hike. Do your own thing.
Who do you compare yourselves to?
…You do realize it is unrealistic - We never compare ourselves to someone who is just like us… wanna know why? Because there is only one of you.
Why do you compare yourselves too?
But in that ask yourself why are you comparing yourself to anyone?
Most likely the world pressures you to compare simply by the images we see and the narrative we hear.
We should compare to Jesus…Why
- We see how futile and silly that is if we do this without him
Galatians 6:4 Pay careful attention to your own work, for then you will get the satisfaction of a job well done, and you won’t need to compare yourself to anyone else. 5 For we are each responsible for our own conduct.
Romans 12:2 Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect.
*How are we conformed? By comparison… what I should look like, be like, act like etc…
Matthew 5:48 Be ye perfect as your heavenly Father is perfect.
Perfect = Gk = be your full potential, be completed in Jesus.
The biggest enemy of comparison: You are trying to be someone else.
When you get to heaven God is not going to ask you why you were not more like “____________”.
He is going to ask you why you were not more like him and who he created you to be?
Vanity, failure or Complete dependance… it’s all a matter of comparison.
Tuesday Jun 29, 2021
Tuesday Jun 29, 2021
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Somebody get a box of tissue… this is going to be a rough one. People may tweet about it, Tik tock about it, instagram about it… oh my. We are going after every stupid protest in the book.
Hey this past week an american Olympic athlete turned her back on the flag and people are freaking out.
If you haven’t heard by now, BLM, CRT, LGBQT, CNN, FBIy and IOU (I just threw that in there for good measure) they are all the enemy or so you are told. But lets be honest… these are just the flys that are attracted by what is really going on - the end of the world.
I am no conspiracy theorist… but even our own secular scientists have recently released a report that a meteor is headed for earth and should strike on Friday, April the 13th in the year 2029…. uhhhh that is only 8 years and counting…
So what’s the big deal? Well it fits perfectly into God prophecy concerning the end times. The third trumpet sounded by an angel says an asteroid will hit the earth…
Revelations 8:10Then the third angel sounded his trumpet, and a great star burning like a torch fell from heaven and landed on a third of the rivers and on the springs of water. 11The name of the star is Wormwood. A third of the waters turned bitter like wormwood oil, and many people died from the bitter waters.…
What is your distraction?
Who cares who turns their back on the flag, who kneels, what the current administration is pushing… are you surprised? You shouldn’t be… we already know the earth is heading towards the tribulation…
this brings up another scripture by the Apostle Paul.
Phil. 3:12-21
12 I don’t mean to say that I have already achieved these things or that I have already reached perfection. But I press on to possess that perfection for which Christ Jesus first possessed me. 13 No, dear brothers and sisters, I have not achieved it,[a] but I focus on this one thing: Forgetting the past and looking forward to what lies ahead, 14 I press on to reach the end of the race and receive the heavenly prize for which God, through Christ Jesus, is calling us.
15 Let all who are spiritually mature agree on these things. If you disagree on some point, I believe God will make it plain to you. 16 But we must hold on to the progress we have already made.
17 Dear brothers and sisters, pattern your lives after mine, and learn from those who follow our example. 18 For I have told you often before, and I say it again with tears in my eyes, that there are many whose conduct shows they are really enemies of the cross of Christ. 19 They are headed for destruction. Their god is their appetite, they brag about shameful things, and they think only about this life here on earth. 20 But we are citizens of heaven, where the Lord Jesus Christ lives. And we are eagerly waiting for him to return as our Savior. 21 He will take our weak mortal bodies and change them into glorious bodies like his own, using the same power with which he will bring everything under his control.
Imagine all the things that are trying to get your attention as you are running this race…
on the streets as you run are people chanting inflation, dirty politics, pornography, sex trafficking, BLM, CRT, violence, Trump won, trump lost, Biden sucks, The border crisis… but you are running to save lives.
When this meteor hits, it is supposed to hit Mexico and california - it will have the impact of 65,000 atomic bombs like we dropped on Nagasaki. It will kill almost 1 Billion people…
Did you know we have already sent up rocket ships to try to blow it up…
The end is coming… how stupid are you to get caught up in the cultural trappings and arguments of this world.
Run the race to win, press on toward the mark… Preach, teach, share Jesus. Its all that matters!
Monday Jun 28, 2021
Monday Jun 28, 2021
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Eph. 5:25, 27 Christ died for the church
It is the only thing on earth that is going to last forever.
Eph. 3:21
When you quit going to church it is like the slow backsliding burn… the trainer who wanted to relate to his clients - so he ate anything, quit exercising and put on 50 pounds… at first it was exhilarating - he could eat whatever he wanted… then it was depressing, he didn’t want to train other clients, he did not want to work out, he didn’t even want to go to his own gym. (Greg Laurie)
Thursday Jun 24, 2021
Thursday Jun 24, 2021
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Your father's exercise routine may have made you smarter according to EU-funded researchers studying how lifestyle choices affect brain function and memory. The findings could lead to new treatments for neurodegenerative conditions such as Alzheimer's disease.
The groundbreaking research in the DEPICODE project, supported by the European Research Council, is deepening our understanding of epigenetics: how external influences such as physical activity, mental stimulation, diet and stress influence how our cells read genetic information. While it is widely recognised that exercise is good for our brains –strengthening neural connections to sharpen thinking and enhance memory – the DEPICODE team’s findings suggest some of these benefits can even be passed on to our children.
What is epigenetic’s? Epigenetics is the study of how cells control gene activity without changing the DNA sequence."
Think of your ABC’s as your DNA sequence, it has to stay that way. But epigenetics show how each letter may change… The D in the sequence may be a capitol D and the L may be Brown, and the ST may be wrinkled and bold red… all of these control and affect alterations of a person.
PS. 127:3-5
Behold, children are a heritage from the Lord, the fruit of the womb a reward. Like arrows in the hand of a warrior are the children of one's youth. Blessed is the man who fills his quiver with them! He shall not be put to shame when he speaks with his enemies in the gate.
DT. 11:19 You shall teach them to your children, talking of them when you are sitting in your house, and when you are walking by the way, and when you lie down, and when you rise.
Your actions as a father as a mother affect your children even before they are born… both physically
and spiritually.
However if you already have kids out of the womb and now in the room… all the more reason to understand your actions, your habits, your values ultimately impact your kids.
Hey who has not said “I just want my kids to have it better than me”… Or I hope my kids know God even more than I do… but the truth is that we for the most part set that bar for them. EVEN BEFORE THEY ARE BORN.
Wow, Gods hand is so instrumental in every area of our lives, even our childrens lives in and through us.
How about if today you understand your actions, choices and habits not just in light of how they affect you, but how they affect your children…. and if you don’t have children yet… well we now know you are still ultimately affecting them before you ever even have them.