Episodes
Tuesday Sep 19, 2023
Just be Perfect
Tuesday Sep 19, 2023
Tuesday Sep 19, 2023
The David Alliance
MingleMateMarry.com podcast youtube and website for the perfect marriage material and swag. They got a great hoodie called its a great day to be married… after today maybe some of you will want to wear purchase it… because many of you are not loving the days you are married…
Hebrews 12:1-3
1B and let us run with endurance the race that is set before us, 2 looking to Jesus, the founder and perfecter of our faith, who for the joy that was set before him endured the cross, despising the shame, and is seated at the right hand of the throne of God.
3 Consider him who endured from sinners such hostility against himself, so that you may not grow weary or fainthearted.
Matt. 5:48 Be perfect, therefore, as your heavenly Father is perfect.
Not that I have already obtained all this, or have already been made perfect, but I press on to take hold of that for which Christ Jesus took hold of me.
Perfecter of our faith… what does that mean? It means Christ set before us an example of what perfect faith looks like and what we should strive for…
Someone recently said “ministry is saying yes to that which you are not qualified for -outside of your intimacy with God… it got me thinking.
If you were looking at a graph and on the far left side was levels of intimacy bottom low end, top high end
and across the bottom right ran the purity scale
Your graph would climb in power as you grew in purity. This is what Hebrews is saying…
He is the perfecter of our faith… our faith is motivated and empowered by the purity and perfection in our walk. but what also do these verses say? Jesus is at the right hand of the father - and we know he is interceding for us and he is the example to us to not give up. It is still dependent on our pursuit of Jesus.
Sometimes we think faith comes simply by hearing - and yes that is true, but we also see that there is a perfecting to our faith… so we have faith, but there is a perfecting to that faith.
A little faith with perfection is greater than a lot of faith with little perfection…Remember Jesus words, faith the size of a mustard seed can move a mountain.
What am I trying to say? I have great faith, I really do, but I know if there is sin in my life I am playing with dirty faith… and it is pretty pathetic. If I have very little faith but I know I am intimate with Jesus and my walk is pure… it is much more powerful.
Would you rather light a bomb with a tiny bit of dry gun powder or a whole bucket of wet gun powder… make sense?
So lets take where we are at and ask God to help perfect our faith… and lets see that little bit of faith move mountains.
Maybe today we worry not so much about our faith but about our perfection… how are we doing on the purity scale? Would it be wise to pray for more of Gods perfection and purity than to simply pray for more faith.
Just a thought, until tomorrow - KSG
Monday Sep 18, 2023
7 Behavior Battle Plans
Monday Sep 18, 2023
Monday Sep 18, 2023
The David Alliance
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Change = repent
Repent is less of an emotional response and actually more of a practical response by what we see in scripture.
Acts 3:19 Repent, then, and turn to God, so that your sins may be wiped out, that times of refreshing may come from the Lord,
to change one's mind or purpose/behavior with abhorrence to ones past.
So its not just a spiritual response, its not just an emotional response… it is actually changing ones mind and behavior…
But what is the best way to change ones behavior?
Well Repentance is first… crying out to God asking for forgiveness… but now what. What are some practical ways?
I will give you 7 quick ways to think and work on.
1 Pick one behavior that will change more than just your behavior…
Lose weight or work out… this changes many things and not just the one behavior itself.
Healthier, feel better, boost self esteem, look better, more energy, it might help you better find that special person, builds self discipline for other areas… One behavior with many blessings.
2 Next… pick just one behavior you want to change.
My clients who I train want me to train them, give them a routine for the other days they are home, give them a diet etc… I say NO. Lets just work out 2 or 3 days a week and make that a normal behavior. your CNS can only handle on major change at a time… so don’t make it harder than it should be.
3 make it measurable… Now again make the measuring stick easy to manage. if you are going to work out… don’t build into the behavior, work out, lose 30 pounds, fit into that little black dress. Just make the behavior work out 3 times a week. One simple measurable goal… if you measure to many things or make it to complicated you will feel overwhelmed and give up.
4 Envision it before it ever happens… yes this is called faith. But envision you pushing through the days you want to give up, envision the way you will feel when it happens, envision the stories you will tell… envision teaching others how you did it… as Victor Frankl said “find your why”. live the whole experience before it ever happens.
Wether it is getting out of debt, saving for a house, rebuilding a relationship, reading your bible every day… see it, feel it, taste it.
5 Expect and plan for interruptions. It is called planning for chaos… its normal, its expected, it’s life. So why would you not expect it?
You know why most people fail? They don’t plan for failure!
6 Activate mental peer pressure
Outward peer pressure is good… but inner mental peer pressure is even better. It is the peer pressure that has not yet happened. Let me explain… I will never have an affair… why? I have deep seated mental peer pressure…
Pro.6:32He who commits adultery lacks judgment; whoever does so destroys himself. 33Wounds and dishonor will befall him, and his reproach will never be wiped away.
There are people in my life and network who have messed up greatly with adultery, pornography etc… and they are now “that guy”. I don’t like these people, I love them…but I don’t like them. I do not want to be looked at like the people I don’t like. I don’t want to carry reproach that will never be wiped away… I never want to always be that guy?
7 Get a mentor
Best way to change your behavior is to hang around those who are already practicing that behavior.
Friday Sep 15, 2023
What in the Hell and on earth is satans power?
Friday Sep 15, 2023
Friday Sep 15, 2023
The David Alliance
MingleMateMarry.com podcast youtube and website for the perfect marriage material and swag. They got a great hoodie called its a great day to be married… after today maybe some of you will want to wear purchase it… because many of you are not loving the days you are married…
If you could have any super power what would it be?
Make people tell the truth, but that doesn’t always help . In fact that’s a strategy by Satan
Satan lies with the truth
Misleading by telling the truth…
Did you finish your homework? I just finished my english paper… feels good to be done.
- Dissemble to hide under false appearance.
White on black crime is a problem that affects all black americans. Crime on any person is a problem, and black on black crime is by far a greater risk to blacks than white on black crime.
- Paltering… you say something true and then lead it into a false conclusion. Rape is evil, it is a wrong that women will forever struggle with. This affects every woman and is why we need to keep abortion legal. Women have rights…
Paltering - yes its evil, yes women who are raped will struggle with it - it does not affect EVERY woman and is not the reason they want to keep abortion legal.
Satan is a great liar, maybe the best.
- Eve - Surely you will not die, God doesn’t want you like him, you will know good and evil. This is a classic example of all 3 of satans tactics…
- Jesus - Jump off this temple mount and nothing will happen to you, God will protect you… true, but underneath the false narrative.
- You - You are a sinner… YEP! and then he lies about our future, our hope, our eternity
You see The accuser doesn’t tell the whole truth. Ie you are a sinner - true
But…
We are forgiven by Christ death and Rez
So what is the best strategy to satans lies? Knowing the whole truth.
What is the whole truth..
- The word - Scripture, Psalm 119:160, NKJV The entirety of Your word is truth, And every one of Your righteous judgments endures forever.
- The witness- (the Holy spirit) Jn. 16:13-15 He will guide us into all truth
- The way (Jesus himself) Jesus is the way the truth and the life -time with Jesus is time with the truth.
Spend time with all three and you will rarely if ever be deceived.
Thursday Sep 14, 2023
What in the Hell and earth is satans power P. 2
Thursday Sep 14, 2023
Thursday Sep 14, 2023
Part 2
Satan exercises his limited authority and dominion by way of a hierarchy, in different geographical regions, and in a militaristic fashion or strategy.
In Matthew 4, Satan legitimately offers Jesus the kingdoms of the world.
Plural… kingdoms… there are certain levels and kingdoms that satan has a limited power over.
Satan exercises his otherworldly dominion by way of a hierarchical, geographical, and militaristic strategy.
You can see this most dramatically in Ephesians 6
12 For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this age, against spiritual hosts of wickedness in the heavenly places
SO there are multiple layers to satans power… there are hierarchies like in the military, there are different geographical regions, and different military types of attacks…
But notice the next few verses.
14 Stand therefore, having girded your waist with truth (The truth to see through the strategies of satan), having put on the breastplate of righteousness (again to see through his strategies), 15 and having shod your feet with the preparation of the gospel (no matter where you go geographically you bring the peace of God) of peace; 16 above all, taking the shield of faith with which you will be able to quench all the fiery darts of the wicked one. (you can defend against his actual attacks) 17 And take the helmet of salvation, and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God; (so now we have Gods fighting plan and his weapon to do warfare) 18 praying always with all prayer and supplication in the Spirit, being watchful to this end with all perseverance and supplication for all the saints
Wednesday Sep 13, 2023
What in the Hell (and earth) is satans power
Wednesday Sep 13, 2023
Wednesday Sep 13, 2023
should you and I be terrified of Satan? No. His power is limited and will end. We never need to be deceived by or give in to the Devil’s temptations. God is always ready to provide a way of escape (1 Corinthians 10:13).
But When you ask what power satan has its tricky to understand because he actually has very little, but he does have authority over the world right now, and he also knows we live in a sinful world… so the fact that he has authority over the world, and we live in a sinful world (death, decay, sickness and disease work in his favor) and he is a master liar… makes this world hard to navigate…
However we do have power over the enemy… hold on I thought you said he had authority over the earth… he has limited authority for a limited time…but we still have power over him to rule and reign… even while here on earth.
Think of it this way… Jesus was the first example of what a “born again” believer should be like. He came as a man, led by and empowered by the Holy Spirit… he lived victoriously and with power over sin and satan… so what exactly is satans powers while he has authority over the earth… limited? yes, but what power does he actually have during this time?
I like the way RC Sproul puts it….
Satan’s authority and power are limited and subordinate to the authority that is vested in Christ. Christ right now is the king of this earth. His kingdom is invisible, and not everybody acknowledges it. People are giving more allegiance to the prince of darkness than to the Prince of Peace, but that is an act of usurpation on the part of Satan. His power is restricted, limited, and temporal. What has happened briefly is this: The power and authority of Satan has been dealt a fatal blow by Christ. The Cross, the Incarnation, the Resurrection, and the Ascension tremendously weakened any power or authority that Satan enjoyed, but it didn’t annihilate him. That will come later, when Christ completes his work of redemption with the consummation of his kingdom. All things will be brought into captivity to him, and every knee will bow to him, including the fallen angels, who will bow in submission to his authority.
Are you confused yet? Well here is the biggest power satan has… he is a liar!
Satan is a liar. The apostle John calls Satan the one “who deceives the whole world” (Revelation 12:9).
THAT MEANS WE ALL FALLL TO HIS DECEPTIONS AT TIMES…
The devil and his demons tell two main lies to unbelievers and two primary lies to believers.
Here’s the lie to unbelievers:
- “God doesn’t care about sin. In fact, there might not even be a God. Live your life and do as you please.”
- “You are too bad for God to ever love and forgive you. You are doomed. Just accept it. - in fact he doesn’t even really care about you… he’s too busy, he is out of range out of touch.
But to believers, the devil and his demons say:
- “You’ve been saved, so it doesn’t matter how much you sin. You can do what you want. Don’t worry, because God will forgive you.”… and its true, but not true… yes you are forgiven… but does that mean you are untouched and unjudgable? And do you think you can’t lose your salvation… I don’t think you can lose it, but I do think you can walk away from it.
- “You just thought you were saved. Do you really think God can forgive all the bad things you’ve done?” Satan lies to us regarding Gods ability to forgive, and redeem… as if his work on the cross was limited…
Do you see the similarities between these two sets of lies? The devil may be deceptive and sinister, but he’s not that creative. His essential motive is to get you to believe that God is not the answer to your problem with sin.
Satan is not dumb, but he is stupid. He’s not powerful but he is authoritative, he is not creative - he cannot create, but he can copy and mimic to perfection… but its still a copy… it is still a fake and a forgery.
So what is our defense… well if his true power or strategy is to lie… then our best defense is to know the truth…
what does scripture say in John 8:31 and 32
So Jesus said to the Jews who had believed him, “If you abide in my word, you are truly my disciples, 32 and you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.”
We are to be in his word and know it, and we are to know Jesus who is the truth… and the truth will set you free…
This is not talking about salvation, but rather about freedom from satans lies.
Know him, know it and be free from the liar and his lies.
Monday Sep 11, 2023
It aint rocket surgery
Monday Sep 11, 2023
Monday Sep 11, 2023
INTRO: With Certain jobs it helps greatly or may even require a certain Pedigree and intelligence, genetic disposition… but not with money, and not with spiritual authority and power
Just about anybody can become rich by doing the basics…
Just about anybody can become intimate, powerful and anointed by God simply by doing the basics…
I have worked for ministers, who crashed and burned, their kids crashed and burned, their grandkids crashed and burned… they had every opportunity to be a Crusher in the Kingdom of God… but they never learned the basics…
Why are people so willing to spend time going to church, going to seminars, going to conferences, listening to podcasts, making friends with the super spirituals… Involved in lots of eye catching ministries… willing to spend time on these tasks… Because it is more glamorous and seemingly more fruitful than just reading praying and obeying…
It’s like the get rich quick scheme… they almost if ever work out… but its more glamorous then taking 5% of your income out of every check and investing it in a simple account with compound interest. and being a millionaire in 30 years… its more glamorous than spending 5% of your time reading praying and obeying God every day….
What does the Book of Colossians cover and how does Paul end this letter…
- FALSE TEACHING
- Heretical philosophies
- Varying opinions on how to get to please God
- Demands and practices you must agree to
AND WHAT IS PAULS INSTRUCTION
He says vote republican… NOPE
Buy more ammo… Nope
Yell and scream at the idiots…NOPE
Post your pompous attitude on social media …NOPE
V. 2-4 GK - constant prayer, constant thanksgiving and constant alertness for constant ways God will use you to share the gospel…OR BE THE GOSPEL
THUS…
Pray for me so that I know how to share the gospel and don’t miss those moments!
v. 2 Pray - intense face to face conversation, focused & aware
BUT NOT AWARE IN THE MINDSET OF SATAN IS AFTER US… OR AWARE OF THE END TIMES… BUT
Alert: What is happening MY LITTLE world around ME
What is God speaking directly to ME TO BE THE GOSPEL
(Monday Caribou - woman has a wound, pray for her)
Friday Sep 08, 2023
A male gynecologist... Really?
Friday Sep 08, 2023
Friday Sep 08, 2023
MingleMateMarry.com podcast youtube and website for the perfect marriage material and swag. They got a great hoodie called its a great day to be married… after today maybe some of you will want to wear purchase it… because many of you are not loving the days you are married…
Having a male gynecologist is like going to an auto mechanic that doesn't own a car.
Matthew 22: 34 Jesus shuts the Sadducees up… literally just shuts them down… and at that point the pharisees who were near by should have just nodded and gone about their business… but they just can’t help themselves…they think they are smarter than everybody else… and even smarter than this guy called Jesus… thats a problem.
So they love to argue… even tho they make no sense whatsoever… is this starting to sound familiar… I identify as a woman… well you can pee standing up so Im not sure… “Im a woman - how dare you call me anything other than a woman”. This person is at heart someone who likes to argue even though they are stupid… much like the pharisees…
But when the pharisees do test Jesus… he does not argue, he simply quotes scripture. Deuteronomy 6:5 Love the lord your God with all your heart, mind and soul.
But here is the trick the pharisees used that people today use… They argue as if they are on the side of love, peace, support, kindness….
Listen…
To talk of love and peace and acceptance without dealing with sin, and separation always leads to deception. REPEAT…
The world screams love and peace… how dare we not love the person… oh we do, enough so that we also talk about their sin and separation from God.
But JESUS LOVES EVERYBODY… HE DOES… ENOUGH TO JUDGE THEM
John 5: 22 For not even the Father judges anyone, but He has given all judgment to the Son,
v. 27 and He gave Him authority to execute judgment, because He is the Son of Man.
WHEN YOU find yourself in a confrontation of ideals and values and opinions… save the argument and love the person enough to simply quote scripture… you may be surprised at how things turn out.
Thursday Sep 07, 2023
Where does power come from?
Thursday Sep 07, 2023
Thursday Sep 07, 2023
The David Alliance
MingleMateMarry.com podcast youtube and website for the perfect marriage material and swag. They got a great hoodie called its a great day to be married… after today maybe some of you will want to wear purchase it… because many of you are not loving the days you are married…
The only passion some people have in life are there problems - its the only thing in their life that they feel gives them any power. weird right? But where does power come from…. before you answer that you better listen up - because thats where were going today!
Exciting things coming up… truly thinking about joining the MMM and TDA together in a new ministry for men, young women and married couples. If you got ideas or if you are interested in joining me - I need help with some on fire single adults who are willing to speak the truth to young adults… but you gotta walk the talk, and be willing to take it on the chin. You better be a on fire Xn who’s morality cannot be bought and you are practicing abstinence until either Jesus comes back or your spouse says I do and the preacher announces you husband and wife!
Matthew 10:
7As you go, preach this message: ‘The kingdom of heaven is near.’ 8Heal the sick, raise the dead, cleanse the lepers, drive out demons. Freely you have received; freely give. 9
Cognate: 1432 dōreán(the adverbial form of 1431/dōrea) – something freely done (as gratis), i.e. without "cause"; unearned (undeserved); freely given (without cost) hence not done out of mere obligation or compulsion. See 1431 (dōrea).
If you don’t know its free you won’t act like its free, you won’t give it away like its free, you won’t use it like its free, you will act like you had to earn it, buy it, you will hoard it, you will be surprised when it shows up.
If you feel like in anyway you earned it, deserved it or it might not always be there when you need it… you will find it harder and harder to give it away… and that which you do give away will be from you and not God and will have very little if any power.
Don’t miss this insight… God in these verses has give us an assignment that we cannot fulfill without knowing that his resources are free to us and free to give. Unless you truly understand that they are free- you will have a hard time fulfilling your mission as a follower of Christ.
Many of us when it comes to money have a poverty mindset… we spend and we give with a “how do i save, scrimp, make it, how do I get by… if I give this will I have enough for me”.
We can do the same with Gods power… we think I do not have all the power and authority I should have because I have not prayed enough, I have sinned - I have not met the requirements that I feel I needed to pay out in order to have his power freely given”.
There is only one requirement I see in these verses and through out scripture… preach the gospel. Tell people about Jesus and his power will freely flow out of you.
Want more of Gods power and authority in your life… well prayer is good, so is scripture and meditation and church attendance… but it does not earn what is freely given. Step out in the gospel and watch the power freely flow out of you.
Wednesday Sep 06, 2023
They will never notice... so why?
Wednesday Sep 06, 2023
Wednesday Sep 06, 2023
The David Alliance
MingleMateMarry.com podcast youtube and website for the perfect marriage material and swag. They got a great hoodie called its a great day to be married… after today maybe some of you will want to wear purchase it… because many of you are not loving the days you are married…
John D. Rockefeller, the founder of the Standard Oil Company, the first billionaire of the United States of America and once the richest man on Earth was asked by a reporter, “How much money is enough?” He calmly replied, “Just a little bit more”
Kurt Vonnegut Jr. who wrote Cats cradle (I loved reading Vonnegut and and other books the concept of ice 9 was mind blowing)… any way - he was at a party and his friend Joseph Heller was there who also wrote Catch 22.. both widely successful as far as authors go… Vonnegut leaned over to Heller and said Our host, who was a hedge fund manager has made more money in one day then you or I have ever made all together… in which Heller replied… yes, but I have something he will never have… enough.
And isn’t that the truth…
I have a question for you… the last 4 really expensive cars you saw… what did the people inside look like?… I bet you can’t remember more than one… why do I ask? Because so much of our lives is thinking if I had this or that or both… it would make me happy and people would be impressed… but the truth is, no one will notice you- they will be too busy thinking I wish I had that it would make me happy… but again the irony is… no one can tell if a new italian sports car or a new house is making you happy. I would again imagine you never looked at a person with a new watch, new car, new house or a loaded bank account and said to yourself “wow you can really tell THAT made him happy. NOPE you are thinking… wow that would make me happy… but all of us know things don’t make us happy. But Greed says otherwise….
there’s a story that goes
There once was a man who was hit by a Beautiful new Mercedes car, but he was not hurt. Even though he was all right he faked being hurt to get some money so that he could by a new Mercedes out of the deal. So he proceeded to lie on the ground fantasizing about “his” new car. As he laid there waiting for someone to come to him another car came along and hit him and he was paralyzed for life. And this is what Greed and Covetousness does to us. Our desire ends up paralyzing us.
Matthew 8:36 For what does it profit a man to gain the whole world and forfeit his soul.
Forfeit = GK Punish, suffer loss or damage
NOW THIS IS NOT TALKING ABOUT AFTER A MAN DIES HE FORFIETS HIS SOUL… this is talking about what he does right now ON EARTH.
if you spend your life running after things, accolades, money, trophies, applause, fame, fortune, attention, sex or whatever… you are punishing and damaging your soul because that is not what it is made for. you sacrifice all that your soul was meant to be, all that your soul was meant experience and all that your soul was meant develop into… but instead you starve it with greed.
Have you ever seen a kid with the crazy genetics.. 6’4, big boned, fast twitch muscle fibers, sharp mind a true specimen… but he wastes it by letting his appetite get the best of him. he eats incredibly delicious tasty crap…. so his body is left to develop on sugar and starch… he ends up obese, but worse than that he could have been one of the all time best NFL players of our generation… He starved his soul to feed his desires…
Maybe you are doing the same…
Leo Tolstoy tells the story of the a peasant farmer who was never satisfied… he was given a novel opportunity in that for just 10000 rubles he could buy all the land he could cover in a day. But he had to be back at his starting point before sun set. So he heads out… starting at a brisk pace… mid day his greed gets the best of him he starts try go faster… get more, get ahead… what will his neighbors think of all the land he gets… by late afternoon he is worried he will not make it back in time… that he will not get everything he wants…so he now is running back, forcing himself to push through the exhaustion.. he will get all the land that is coming to him… with just minutes left before the sun sets he makes it back….He immediately collapsed, blood streaming from his mouth. In a few minutes he was dead. Afterwards, his servants dug a grave. It was not much over six feet long and three feet wide. The title of Tolstoy's story was: How Much Land Does a Man Need?
Tuesday Sep 05, 2023
What does it take!
Tuesday Sep 05, 2023
Tuesday Sep 05, 2023
The David Alliance
MingleMateMarry.com podcast youtube and website for the perfect marriage material and swag. They got a great hoodie called its a great day to be married… after today maybe some of you will want to wear purchase it… because many of you are not loving the days you are married…
The psychology of money is such a great book, a definite must read for ANYBODY!!! And I mean it is a top 10 book you should read and read it many times… but he shares an insight that rocks me every time He talks about it. He shares a story of a young guy who came from a upper class white collar family, graduated from the top business school, got a job at the top investment firm and made amazing money and ready… died broke. No surprise I guess in todays world… but it happens a lot. But he juxtaposed this story with the story of a Janitor who got paid minimum wage… never got into debt, saved money regularly and without great sacrifice and when he died he left behind more than 2 million dollars…
But the authors point was this… almost in no other field will you see that your reputation and pedigree and intelligence makes any difference at all in regards to how well you can invest… meaning anyone can cash in on the power of compound interest… ANYBODY.
So it gets me thinking… you can have someone who has a father and mother in ministry, a great ministry, lots of fruit, signs wonders, power miracles… amazing. Can hear gods voice crystal clear… , had gone to the best seminary and has all the theological degrees, the big time pastor friends ….and … And… yet they can end up Spiritually bankrupt OR OR OR they die on target serving God but their kids are a wreck!
But the same thing can be seen in this picture as well… you can get the guy who has horrible parenting, no spiritual upbringing, or example, has never grown up or experienced the power of God, miracles, wonders, signs etc… has no seminary, bible college, in fact has a pretty sinful life full of selfishness and spiritual blindness… but then experiences new birth in Christ and develops the intimacy to move in powerful ways in the spirit for God.
Smith Wigglesworth was born in poverty, his first job was pulling turnips out of the ground… he became a plumber… but when he was baptized in the Holy Spirit the world changed… he would have been the last kid picked in the preacher hall of fame candidates, and yet we still talk about his crazy miracles today.
So what’s my point?
No excuses.. no advantages can make or break the power of God in your life. Only time with him or the lack there of.
So you don’t have the pedigree, the education, the right spouse, the best religious upbringing… don’t matter. What matters is time reading, praying, obeying every day in and out. Its not a secret ingredient, its the only ingredient.