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Tuesday Feb 13, 2024
Tuesday Feb 13, 2024
Garth Heckman
The David Alliance
How to be a man March 26th GRUB@ 6:45, MTG @7:15 HillSpring Church.
Whats the bait?
V week… I make Kim walk around all week in a string bikini sparkly red….
What makes a guy HOT SEXY DESIREABLE
Feb. 5th 2007 A crazy decadent afternoon of passion - it was Super Bowl Sunday… I got a text message, I called the number back on a different phone… Kim heard me ticked off… thought it was about the game.
Eph. 5
21Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ. 22 Wives, submit to your husbands as to the Lord. 23For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, His body, of which He is the Savior.…
Submit GK experience
And - Note that this verse clearly ties the truth about submission to the instructions on being filled with the Spirit. Paul is teaching that if one is filled with the Spirit, he or she will willingly submit themselves to whatever authority God has placed over them. The corollary truth is that genuine submission from the heart is not possible apart from the Spirit’s empowering. Finally, in this verse it is clear that there is to be a mutual submission between believers apart from the line of authority.
John Phillips…
The key to each relationship is submission, the kind of submission the Son yielded to the Father when He lived on earth as a man. That kind of submission, so often contrary to human nature, is an evidence of the filling of the Spirit. The Holy Spirit will drill us in submission by the pressure of human relationships. It may take time, but eventually we learn that the path of submission is best; we learn to fall in line with the will of the Holy Spirit.
What makes a wife want to submit in every area of life?
YOU HEAR GODS VOICE… and its proven
V Day
No, you can’t just say I heard from God- now submit. You have to have a proven track record my friend. Early in our marriage my wife wouldn’t ask me to pray for anything. In fact, she would ask me to ask my father to pray for things regarding our family or needs or problems. But overtime as I would learn how to press more and more in to hearing God’s voice, and it was a proven track record of hearing God’s voice acting on it and seen the fruit of it that caused her to submit.
Now the first person my wife runs to to ask to pray about something and to hear God’s voice, and what to do is me.
Do you wanna know why I’m so sexy to my wife? It’s because she sees a man who reads and praise every day, here’s God‘s voice, acts on it, and because of that she and her children bear much fruit and blessing because of it. In her mind, she thinks, of course I want to spoil rotten the man who brings me all good things through his walk with God.
I have conversations with friends who lament about the lack of respect, love and sex they get from there wives… I always ask them, would you want to be married to you?
Seriously is your faith so amazing that your wife rests in that, has confidence in that, sees a track record of that?
I find great joy when I find out my wife brags on me in front of other women… many times as these women lament about their husbands. She doesn’t brag about my bench press my skill in martial arts, my multiple business projects, money, friends… she brags about the security and safety I have provided for her.
Monday Feb 12, 2024
Monday Feb 12, 2024
Garth Heckman
The David Alliance
How to be a man March 26th GRUB@ 6:45, MTG @7:15 HillSpring Church.
ESPN, Grammys, NFL honors, After victories in sports,
Have you talked to their GF’s and buddies?
In Matthew 7:21-23, Jesus gives a profound warning about the deadly danger of self-deception:
“Not everyone who says to Me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ will enter the kingdom of heaven… Many will say to Me on that day, ‘Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in Your name, and in Your name cast out demons, and in Your name perform many miracles?’ And then I will declare to them, ‘I never knew you; depart from Me, you who practice lawlessness.’”
This verse is a slap in the face wake up call. How does that kind of self-deception happen?
When you base your confidence of salvation on the wrong evidence. Example…many believe that if they affirm certain facts and make certain claims, use certain words, they can be sure they are Christians.
So how can someone who professes Christ tell if they are self-deceived and not a Christian at all?
First, merely referring or thanking Jesus as “Lord” because of a prior a profession of faith does not guarantee someone is a true believer. Matthew 7 says that at the judgment many will claim Jesus is their “Lord,” but have no real relationship with Him.
Second, merely believing the right doctrine does not make you a Christian. In the context of this passage, those who address Jesus as “Lord,” are referring to Him not only as Master but as God. They are acknowledging His deity. But you can acknowledge Jesus’ claims and the truth of the gospel and still not belong to Christ.
How many people on SM rave and promote bits and pieces of scripture regarding the worlds agenda. If only I had a dollar for every time I post truth from scripture and someone comments that is not very X like. Jesus is love, Jesus doesn’t judge….
Finally spiritual fervency doesn’t mean you are a Christian. In these verses, the repetition of “Lord, Lord” implies fervency both in life and at the judgment. These people are sincere! But an emotional response to Jesus Christ and His message is not a guarantee of genuine Christianity.
Warning…. They are sincere
So, if none of those things is solid proof of saving faith, what is?
Matt. 7:21 gives the answer: “Not everyone who says to Me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ will enter the kingdom of heaven, but he who does the will of My Father who is in heaven will enter.”
Jesus specifically identifies who will enter His kingdom: those who not only claim
Him as Lord, but also obey Him as Lord.
Obey GK - acting in such a way to cause Gods will to happen.
His will / word happens due to your actions.
He wants us virgins till marriage - how are your actions holding up
He wants purity, sacrifice, he wants us to share the gospel with people, actions??? Actions??? Actions???
Read his word, seek his voice and obey both.
Monday Feb 05, 2024
Monday Feb 05, 2024
Garth Heckman
The David Alliance
How to be a man coming soon at HillSpring Church.
Ecc. 9:10 10 Whatsoever thy hand findeth to do, do it with thy might; for there is no work, nor device, nor knowledge, nor wisdom, in the grave, whither thou goest.
What is keeping you from your goals
What is keeping you from your potential
What is keeping you from your future
What is keeping you from your wants and desires
What is keeping you from asking her out
What is keeping you from being the best husband, father,
What is keeping your broke???
Its not a lack of know how, its not a lack of opportunities, its not a lack of spiritual blessing, it is not a lack of education…
Its only one thing. Procrastination.
How do we overcome procrastination…
Start with your basic habits… build in habits that take procrastination out of your ritual.
You can’t read and pray or go to the gym…
Put it in your schedule to drive to the gym after work, read your bible for 10 minutes then walk into the gym. Don’t make decisions make your decisions… build it into your daily routine, your system and the decision has already been made.
Understand you have the power… most of us have jobs. We may not like our jobs but we choose to do them. The things we choose to procrastinate are the same things that work is… but we still can choose to do them. You have the power to choose, the same way you don’t want to work, but still choose to do so.
Start… simply start. Do something each day regarding your desire.
You want to write a book. Then today go buy a new journal. The next day buy a new pen and pencil. The next day buy a good lamp to write by at night… at some point the motivation kicks in and you just do it.
I went to a motivational speaker event (I go to lots) and the speaker said that he has learned how to get over 75% of his audience to be successful in what he shares… where in most people who go to an event like his - well they listen, they get fired up and go home and do nothing. So what does this guy do different to get such great results? He takes 20 minutes out of his presentation and tells them to work on their goal right now. Call someone, watch a video on Youtube, Text a possible network connection to grow, or ask someone to teach you, Ask someone to keep you accountable, IT DOES NOT MATTER, what mattes is they started and gained some motivation during the session… now here is a secret… he than asks those in attendance to share what they did with others around them… and the energy and mind share and catalyst of momentum kicks in.
Environment matters. I am just about finished with my book. I do not write at night, I do not write at work and I do not write at home. I write only one day and in one place. It is my favorite coffee shop with free refills. I know no one there, I put on my headphones and just write… Wednesday mornings from 7am - 10am. I can crank out as many as 40 pages in that time slot of 3 hours. However if you gave me 15 hours at home or work I would barely get 5 pages done. It is the wrong environment.
This last one works really well for me. I have talked about this a few years back on the podcast and its just something that I made up but really works. Before I begin a project or a goal… lets say it is calling up that girl I want to ask out. I put a timeline together…
Ok, Its 2pm, if I call right now and she answers, I could in 20 minutes be laughing on the phone with her. In 30 minutes I could be setting up a date with her, and in 45. Minutes I could be texting her, can’t wait for Friday night, and in 24 hours I could be texting her… do you like sushi? And in 2 days I could be out shopping for a new shirt… and in 4 days I could be sitting at dinner with her… and in 4 days 3 hours I could be kissing her goodnight.
Then I just let me mind track the time… the more I put off starting the farther away that kiss is.
Another example… I want to clean the garage. I put a mental map together… If I start in 20 minutes, I would have the back wall cleared in 45 minutes, 30 minutes after that I could have the old motorcycle parts pulled out of the garage, in 2 hours I could have my car parked back in my garage. In 3 hours I could have the boxes thrown, the fridge dragged out to the curb and I could be picking out paint colors for the wall.
Then I just let my mind track the time… the longer it takes me to start, the farther away my goal is accomplished… and it stirs me to start.
Sunday Feb 04, 2024
Sunday Feb 04, 2024
Garth Heckman
The David Alliance
How to be a man coming soon at HillSpring Church.
Are you not entertained?
Maximus (Russell Crowe)
Arguably the most recognizable Gladiator quote, this line delivered by Maximus goes to show the lack of empathy the crowd embodies. The mob wants nothing more than bloodshed and death, a show to distract them from the emptiness of reality.
We could easily cry this out in todays world forums and families.
As well as…
Are you not distracted?
Are you not deceived?
Are you not gullible?
Are you not in the dark?
Are you not in the fight?
Are you not the wicked Lazy servant who buried his talent in the ground?
We miss - I believe the most important line in the movie which follows this line. Gladiator yells to the crowd “are you not entertained, is this not why you are here?”
WHY ARE WE HERE?
Why are we here on this earth?
Entertainment… I doubt any of us would be so bold and so foolish to answer yes to this question… but yet we find ourselves at times in exactly that lifestyle and mindset.
If I strive to succeed at my business, is it not truly so that I have the resources to entertain myself and meet my desires?
You might be surprised at the number of times the Bible touches on the subject of entertainment. On the positive side, Jesus went to parties and made time to get away from the grind of ministry with His disciples. Paul said that God “richly provides us with everything to enjoy” (1 Timothy 6:17), and he obviously knew something about poetry (Acts 17:28), sports (1 Corinthians 9:24-26), and the theater (1 Corinthians 4:9). What’s more, the end of history is pictured as a banquet for God’s people in Revelation. Negatively, King Herod’s attempt to entertain his guests led to John the Baptist’s execution (Matthew 14:6-12), and the Persian King Ahasuerus’ wild party ended with what amounted to a divorce (Esther 1:1-22). How do we sort through these biblical references? Here are several principles to help you determine Scripture’s teaching on entertainment and amusement.
Entertainment is not for fleshly desires or feelings to be experienced. It is not an escape and it is not to be in the form of activities that are lewd, unholy, or selfish…
Entertainment a seen in scripture was for the purpose of enjoying Gods creation including his people. It gives you a respite for a fight that is coming again soon.
Interruptions don’t interrupt my mission, but rather serve as a break to focus on a particular aspect of God to feel invigorated and refreshed.
Monday Jan 29, 2024
Monday Jan 29, 2024
Garth Heckman
The David Alliance
How to be a man coming soon at HillSpring Church.
THOUGHT #1 LOYALTY PROTECTS LOYALTY
Marriage
Loyalty also means doing what is best to protect the Loyalty… the Loving Kindness.
Man's test of loyalty is when he is successful.
Woman's test of loyalty is if he is unsuccessful
TRUE LOYALTY PROTECTS LOYALTY
Loyalty… Im not in chat rooms, Im not flirting with the ladies at the gym, bank, work,
TRUE LOYALTY PROTECTS LOYALTY
There are men I have told my wife - That guy at church… don’t let him hug you. That guy on line, don’t respond to his comments…
READY TO SWALLOW HARD… SHE SUBMITS! -
SHE KNOWS I AM TRYING TO PROTECT OUR LOYALTY!
SHE WANTS TO BE LOYAL TO ME!
You know what Uriah should have said to Bathsheba? Hey if you are ever showering and a man wants to meet up with you… DONT! Even if its the King!
PROTECT THE LOYALTY!
I AM A JEALOUS HUSBAND…
GOD IS A JEALOUS GOD! WHY?
HE WANTS TO PROTECT THE LOYALTY!
I told Kim: I will love you no matter what… even if you cheat on me! IM NOT WANTING HER TO TEST ME ON THIS….
Thursday Jan 25, 2024
Thursday Jan 25, 2024
Garth Heckman
The David Alliance
How to be a man coming soon at HillSpring Church.
Who will God expose…
2 Kings 5
Naaman - the Kings General
Slave girl - captured by
King Aram - go and take 750lbs of sliver, 150lbs gold, 10 tailor made suits by Ben Snyder
King of Israel - he’s picking a fight
Elisha - I got this
DUNK 7 times in the Jordan river
Gehazi - Goes to get the money
Struck with Leprosy
Naaman does not want any of his money… but he does ask Elisha to ask God to overlook him having to bow to anther God
17 “If you will not,” said Naaman, “please let me, your servant, be given as much earth as a pair of mules can carry, for your servant will never again make burnt offerings and sacrifices to any other god but the Lord. 18 But may the Lord forgive your servant for this one thing: When my master enters the temple of Rimmon to bow down and he is leaning on my arm and I have to bow there also—when I bow down in the temple of Rimmon, may the Lord forgive your servant for this.”
Wednesday Jan 24, 2024
Wednesday Jan 24, 2024
The David Alliance
Garth Heckman
a Car bug out…. Compass, firestarter, two knives, mini axe, saw, shovel, weapon, first aid kit, protein bars and trail mix, thermal blanket, binoculars, a stack of cash… etc… why? You may not be able to get to your house in a city meltdown and need to just hang out in the park, woods or hide out somewhere.
How to be a man?
WE just covered…
How to make 2024 a better launch… a better life.
But today in talking about what is in and what is out is really about being prepared…
1. Matthew 24:42-44 So you, too, must keep watch! For you don’t know what day your Lord is coming. Understand this: If a homeowner knew exactly when a burglar was coming, he would keep watch and not permit his house to be broken into. You also must be ready all the time, for the Son of Man will come when least expected.
NY times says Vaping is out, mindless phone scrolling is out, But what is in? Earlier bed times, staying hydrated and Balletcore… it is hyper feminine fashion based on what ballet performers wear… I love when my wife goes ultra feminine and I am so happy she still have the body and the looks for it. Today is her B day and she turns 58 and still looks amazing!
Fatherhood is in - Being a great dad is going to be the big stand out among cultures and the media… not that the media will honor or promote it, but having a great Dad makes the medias job (which is manipulation) very hard.
Big families are in… the best way to change the culture is through prayer and more kids.
End times and Israel is in
Checking motives… kind of like paranoia
Reacher is in
Tuesday Jan 23, 2024
Tuesday Jan 23, 2024
Garth Heckman
The David Alliance
Hey whats in? Fridges in bathrooms?
Sexy Red dresses…
Life prep…
Christian quotes about being prepared
“If you call yourself a Christian, but you live in a continuous lifestyle of sin, you’re not prepared.”
“There is always a prepared place for a prepared person.” Jack Hyles
“Depend on it, my hearer, you never will go to heaven unless you are prepared to worship Jesus Christ as God.” Charles Spurgeon
“By failing to prepare, you are preparing to fail.” Benjamin Franklin
WE just covered…
How to make 2024 a better launch… a better life.
But today in talking about what is in and what is out is really about being prepared…
1. Matthew 24:42-44 So you, too, must keep watch! For you don’t know what day your Lord is coming. Understand this: If a homeowner knew exactly when a burglar was coming, he would keep watch and not permit his house to be broken into. You also must be ready all the time, for the Son of Man will come when least expected.
What’s in what’s out
Washington Post says bathroom refrigerators are in IN 2024? Really?
a Car bug out…. Compass, firestarter, two knives, mini axe, saw, shovel, weapon, first aid kit, protein bars and trail mix… etc… why? You may not be able to get to your house in a city meltdown and need to just hang out in the park, woods or hide out somewhere.
Seeker sensitive & scripture memorization
*start here
Dedicated bible study - To many pastors are hot topic preachers…
Masculinity - own it. Be a man, have a strong opinion, disagree with people, the media, your friends… Be kind, but be a man, stick up for those in need out in public.
Demonology
End times
Spiritual warfare
Domineering women
Start here 1-22-24
Politics out - Libertarian, Republican, Democrat, independent, Maga, Socialist,
People are tired of choosing sides… they just want what is best for our country. More people are starting to see the ridiculousness of The elite and the powerful throwing out hot topics in order to bait us like fish and then gut us for their own good.
Global warming? - what about my taxes that keep skyrocketing and the national debt is out of control.
Whats in - knowing the people more than knowing the issues. Look I am a republican… but I am smart enough to study republicans and know who is right for our country…. If you can’t trust the people than it does not matter if you know the issues.
Book smart is in - knowing the facts. I love Layne Norton, PhD. On instagram follow him on Biolayne. He covers the fanatical and outrageous claims of influencers on nutrition and training. And John Dorsey Goob U2… calls out all the bs people who alter their photos and promote their work out programs…
Quit listening to the media and start listening to the facts. Turn off your phone and read a book.
Group living or compound living in - kids are moving in with their parents… YES and people are moving in with other families.
They are finding they can home school better, garden better, worship better, relationships among husbands and wives are better, kids are more well adjusted, finances are easier.
Paranoia is in
Sunday Jan 21, 2024
Sunday Jan 21, 2024
The David Alliance
Hey whats in? Fridges in bathrooms?
Sexy Red dresses…
Life prep…
Christian quotes about being prepared
“If you call yourself a Christian, but you live in a continuous lifestyle of sin, you’re not prepared.”
“There is always a prepared place for a prepared person.” Jack Hyles
“Depend on it, my hearer, you never will go to heaven unless you are prepared to worship Jesus Christ as God.” Charles Spurgeon
“By failing to prepare, you are preparing to fail.” Benjamin Franklin
WE just covered…
How to make 2024 a better launch… a better life.
But today in talking about what is in and what is out is really about being prepared…
1. Matthew 24:42-44 So you, too, must keep watch! For you don’t know what day your Lord is coming. Understand this: If a homeowner knew exactly when a burglar was coming, he would keep watch and not permit his house to be broken into. You also must be ready all the time, for the Son of Man will come when least expected.
What’s in what’s out
Washington Post says bathroom refrigerators are in IN 2024? Really?
a Car bug out…. Compass, firestarter, two knives, mini axe, saw, shovel, weapon, first aid kit, protein bars and trail mix… etc… why? You may not be able to get to your house in a city meltdown and need to just hang out in the park, woods or hide out somewhere.
Seeker sensitive & scripture memorization
*start here
Dedicated bible study - To many pastors are hot topic preachers…
Masculinity - own it. Be a man, have a strong opinion, disagree with people, the media, your friends… Be kind, but be a man, stick up for those in need out in public.
Demonology
End times
Spiritual warfare
Domineering women
Friday Jan 19, 2024