The David Alliance

God wants you successful... But there's a catch!

Garth Heckman

The David Alliance

TDAgiantSlayer@Gmail.com 

 

The Bible doesn't provide a specific list of three reasons God wants you to succeed, but it does offer several themes that connect to achieving success in God's eyes. Here are three such themes:

1. Glorifying God Through Your Gifts:

• The Bible emphasizes using your God-given talents and abilities for good.  Proverbs 18:16 says, "Skillful work brings profit, but chattering leads to poverty." Success achieved through using your gifts can bring honor to God.

2. Fulfilling Your Purpose:

• The Bible suggests God has a purpose for each life.  Ephesians 2:10 says, "For we are God’s handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do." Success in fulfilling that purpose can be seen as achieving God's will for you.

3. Being a Good Steward:

• The Bible teaches we are stewards of the resources and talents God grants us.  Matthew 25:14-30 (the parable of the talents) illustrates this. Success can involve wisely managing what God has entrusted to you.

How to Achieve Success in God's Eyes:

• Seek God's Guidance: Pray for wisdom and discernment in your endeavors (James 1:5).
• Develop Your Gifts: Cultivate your talents and abilities through learning and practice.
• Live a Moral Life: Following God's principles builds a strong foundation for success (Proverbs 20:7).
• Help Others: Use your success to bless others and contribute to the world (Galatians 6:10).
• Trust in God: Recognize that true success ultimately comes from God's grace (Proverbs 10:22).

Remember, the Bible's definition of success may differ from worldly views. Focus on using your talents for good, living righteously, and trusting in God's plan for your life.

But what you must understand is when you look at people in the bible who were wildly successful it did not come the way you would think… and it won’t come the way you want it to in your life…

Look if you came to me and said I want to bench 400 pounds… I would say I can give that to you.

If you went to God and said I want a million dollars… he could give that to you.

What am I getting at. If you wanted to bench 400 pounds, I would give you 1000’s of dummbell pull presses, 1000’s of bench variations with bands, chains, different bars, different angels and different loadings… I would give you 1000’s of Tate presses, 1000’s of JM presses, thousands and thousands of band tri extensions… and that is just the beginning… and you would say how is this giving me a 400 pound bench… well you can’t handle the 400 poounds until you develop the ability to handle it which is 10’s of thousands of reps in all things “non 400 pound bench”. 

If you pray God give me a million dollars, even if you are willing to work for it… and that is your idea of success… he is going to create a life, circumstances, problems, challenges etc.. that make it possible for you to handle 1 million dollars. If not he not a very loving father. would you give your newly crowned 16 year old daughter a brand new Ferrari? Uhm… no. 

Why do we not see this in todays world… why is this a bad thing. What ever you want… name it: Be a greater man of God, make more money, be a better husband, be a better father, get the new raise or promotion at work, build a 8 figure buisness… lose 100 pounds … if you really mean it, and you really pray for it… you are praying for 1000’s and 1000’s of reps that will make it posilbe for that to come thru in your life. Other wise Gods not a very loving father. How many people win the lottery and are brok 3 years later… 99% of them. 

God has give you the desires of your heart… they are usually good desires… but before you go chasing after them realize God first wants you Holy so you can handle those answered prayers…

Success without sanctification is sacrifice of your  true  god given potential and future. 

Blood Sweat and Oil.... OIL?

Garth Heckman 

The David Alliance

TDAgiantslayer@gmail.com

 

BAM - watch them every Tuesday night on our Facebook page.

 

August Friday and Saturday 16th 17th End times conference at HillSpring Church sponsored by The David Alliance, 

 

Ever been out in the hot sun and your working… you quickly get sweaty, then you get oily and then you get bloody… wait what? Yeah thats where we are going today. 

 

Matthew 26:36-46

 

where Jesus is said to have prayed on the night of his arrest before the Crucifixion. The name Gethsemane (Hebrew gat shemanim, “oil press”) suggests that the garden was a grove of olive trees in which was located an oil press.

 

Olive oil is prepared by timing… when the olives are ripe, ready to be picked, then crushed on a millstone and the oil is separated. 

 

Sweat is an odorless liquid, consisting of mainly water, proteins, salt and oils.

And in fact 

When the body is reacting to an emotion, like anxiety, stress or excitement, sweat is released from the apocrine glands. These glands produce a milkier sweat comprised of fatty acids and proteins.

That fat is what produces that oil on the skin.

 

Jesus in the garden under great duress and stress and anxiety… fell into a state of Hemitidrosis 

But when Jesus sweat, he sweat blood….

So when he was under pressure, the oil press remember… what came out of him was the power of Jesus. THE POWER OF THE BLOOD - RIGHT? 

Gods blood forgives us, cleanses us, gives us the right to serve God and the power to serve God….

Revelation 12:1 His blood gives us power over the devil…

This is what oozed out of Jesus when under pressure. 

His own oil, sweat and blood. You have heard the term blood sweat and tears… well its more appropriate to say Sweat Blood and Oil. 

 

Just before this happened… just before we saw what comes out of Jesus… he was in prayer. What comes out of you will be determined by how well you are connected to the Father. 

 

Don’t expect Gods anointing and power - oil and blood, to come out of you if you have been spending time on your phone, computer, music, friends, hobbies, drinking, money… if Prayer occupies your life, than when you are pressed you will produce oil and blood. 

 

But one more thing to notice… sin started in a garden…. Gods first drops of blood happened in a garden. 

One garden with one sin with worldwide eternal reverberations

And we see…

One garden with one night of pressure and prayer and blood came of it with worldwide eternal reverberations

When your under pressure seek God for the best possible Worldwide eternal reverberations. 

Where is that noise coming from?

Garth Heckman 

The David Alliance

TDAgiantslayer@gmail.com

 

BAM - watch them every Tuesday night on our Facebook page.

 

August Friday and Saturday 16th 17th End times conference at HillSpring Church sponsored by The David Alliance, 

 

Whats that noise? Your wife left her earrings in the ashtray!

How do we endure?

Psalm 100:1 Make a joyful noise…

GK Roo-ahh

A Battle cry…. In your battle, in your noise you cry out for joy. 

Whats your noise?

depression, and anxiety, sickness, marital problems, waiting for a husband issues with your kids. These are all noise. Now make it joyful.

 

We are His people and the sheep of His pasture.

4 

Enter into His gates with thanksgiving,
And into His courts with praise.
Be thankful to Him, and bless His name.

5 

For the Lord is good;
His mercy is everlasting,
And His truth endures to all generations.

The dumbest prayer Jesus ever prayed

Garth Heckman

THE David Alliance

What can you teach us this year?

 

Matt.26:39

 

39 Going a little farther, He fell facedown and prayed, “My Father, if it is possible, let this cup pass from Me. Yet not as I will, but as You will.” 40 Then Jesus returned to the disciples and found them sleeping. “ Were you not able to keep watch with Me for one hour?” He asked Peter. 41 “Watch and pray so that you will not enter into temptation. For the spirit is willing, but the body is weak.”…

 

 

The outcome is inevitable - so why pray?  Wrestle with your boys

Turning boys into men P3

Garth Heckman

7 steps to make boys men… and 7 dangers to keep them boys

Luke 2:52 stature, favor wisdom

 

 

1. Taking Responsibility:

Real men understand the importance of taking responsibility for their actions and decisions. This habit goes beyond simply admitting when they are wrong; it involves owning up to the consequences of their choices and working to make amends. They don't make excuses or blame others for their circumstances. Instead, they face challenges head-on and use their experiences as learning opportunities. By taking responsibility, they build credibility and trust with others, which is foundational for any meaningful relationship. This practice fosters maturity and accountability, setting the stage for personal and professional growth.

 

 1A  Video games. These are used to escape responsibility and relationships. 

Without a great father figure it can seem impossible to live up to ones potential. You can feel overwhelmed and insecure. Enter video games. You can be a winner, you can start over, you can meet people and not really have to meet people, you can kill time…. 

You can master a video game and even stand out amongst your peers… you can’t master life. It will alwasy win in the long run. The best you can do is hope to learn as much from it as possible. 

 

 

2. Developing Self-Discipline:

Self-discipline is a cornerstone habit that men cultivate in all areas of life. They set clear, achievable goals and establish effective routines to reach them. This involves prioritizing long-term benefits over short-term pleasures, such as maintaining a healthy lifestyle, managing finances wisely, or advancing in their careers. By mastering self-discipline, they develop the ability to stay focused and resilient in the face of distractions and setbacks. This habit empowers them to make consistent progress toward their aspirations, ultimately leading to a more fulfilled and purposeful life.

 

2A Poor habits are the key to a lack of self discipline. You don’t need discipline if you have great habits, and you don’t need great habits if you choose to just drift in life. But listen you need self discipline to cement the habit, but once it is there you got it. Poor habits help you explain why you can’t control the world…so instead you choose to let it control you…. And your excuses neve make up for poor habits. You want your boy to stay a boy? Let his early life of entropy build bad habits… and you will definitely create a boy for life! 

 

 

 

 

3. Seeking Continuous Growth:

Boys to Men are committed to personal growth and lifelong learning. They actively seek new knowledge, skills, and experiences, understanding that growth is a continuous process. They embrace challenges and step out of their comfort zones to push their boundaries. This habit includes reading, attending workshops, learning new hobbies, or seeking mentorship. By constantly pushing themselves to improve, they become more adaptable and innovative, capable of navigating an ever-changing world. This commitment to growth not only enhances their own lives but also positively impacts those around them.

 

As a father what do your boys see you learning and developing? When there in school its easy for them to think they are learning the habit of learning… but that's where you have to push them and show them that learning outside of school is like you learning outside of your own job. You must always be developing yourself beyond your normal routine. I just took a First responders course… tomorrow im taking a course on AI… my boys see that in me, they practice the same things.

 

3A Stagnation or lacking growth poses only a threat to yourself, your family and your future. It is also the key to maintaining a joy LESS life. Growth can do a lot for you… and lacking in growth can also do a lot for you… but guaranteed it it will keep your son from learning what true joy is.

 

 

4. Cultivating Emotional Intelligence:

Here is a thought, men don't leave jobs they leave bosses. Emotional intelligence tells you when how and where to do that. Or it may tell you why people are leaving you? 

Emotional intelligence is crucial for building strong, meaningful relationships. Men develop self-awareness, allowing them to understand their emotions and the impact they have on others. They regulate their emotions effectively, ensuring that their reactions are appropriate and constructive. By empathizing with others, they build deeper connections and navigate social complexities with ease. Effective communication and mature conflict resolution are key aspects of this habit, fostering an environment of mutual respect and understanding.

 

4A lacking emotional intelligence

Lacking emotional intelligence means you will never know yourself, understand yourself, and or even know how to grow and get out of life's pitfalls that you created in your own life. What's the saying again- an unexamined life is not worth living.

A lack of emotional intelligence leads to a higher degree of stress, burnout, anxiety, depression. 

Have you ever talked to a young person who is at the end of their rope and life seems like it's going to end because they failed a class or the girlfriend broke up with them? They lack emotional intelligence. 

A key to building emotional intelligence in your boys is to help them look at others around their life and problems they are dealing with. Ask them how their friends got into those problems and how their friends should deal with those problems and then ask them what they would do if they got into those problems.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Luke 2:52 stature, favor wisdom

 

 

5. Showing Respect:

Real men treat others with respect, regardless of their background or status. They listen attentively, value different perspectives, and treat everyone with dignity. This habit is about recognizing the inherent worth of every individual and behaving in ways that reflect this understanding. Respect is earned through actions, not demanded, and men who consistently show respect build strong, supportive networks both personally and professionally.

 

5A Respect isn’t earned, it is given until it is lost. I might not agree with you but I must learn to respect you. If I do not learn to respect I begin to adopt a mindset of elitism and arrogance. At the base of this is I am choosing to be dumb… Im unwilling to learn from you because I know better than you. Ultimately it translates into your healthy relationships, and even your body language. You isolate healthy helpful meaningful relationships from your life.

 

 

6. Practicing Integrity:

Integrity involves upholding high moral and ethical standards. Men who practice integrity act with honesty, honor, and consistency in their personal and professional lives. They value trust and are true to their word, ensuring that their actions align with their values and principles. This habit builds a reputation of reliability and respect, fostering trust and admiration from others.

 

6A Heres the problem at the core… you lie to yourself. You will never trust yourself to take chances to grow. 

 

7. Embracing Leadership:

Leadership is not just about holding positions of power; it's about taking initiative and inspiring others. Men who embrace leadership make decisions confidently, take responsibility for their outcomes, and motivate those around them to achieve their full potential. They lead by example, demonstrating the behaviors and attitudes they wish to see in others. This habit involves empowering others, contributing positively to families, workplaces, and communities, and striving to create a better environment for all.

Incorporating these habits transforms boys into men by fostering maturity, responsibility, and the ability to positively influence their surroundings.

People who learn to lead without titles will always be sought out. 

 

 

7A if you cant lead yourself, you won’t lead anyone else. I personally believe way too much is spoken about leadership, and far to less on personal leadership. 

What does stress come from? It comes from not living up to your values… but if you cant self lead you will never live up to your values. 

7 ways to turn boys into men P2

Garth Heckman

The David Alliance

3. Seeking Continuous Growth:

Boys to Men are committed to personal growth and lifelong learning. They actively seek new knowledge, skills, and experiences, understanding that growth is a continuous process. They embrace challenges and step out of their comfort zones to push their boundaries. This habit includes reading, attending workshops, learning new hobbies, or seeking mentorship. By constantly pushing themselves to improve, they become more adaptable and innovative, capable of navigating an ever-changing world. This commitment to growth not only enhances their own lives but also positively impacts those around them.

 

As a father what do your boys see you learning and developing? When there in school its easy for them to think they are learning the habit of learning… but that's where you have to push them and show them that learning outside of school is like you learning outside of your own job. You must always be developing yourself beyond your normal routine. I just took a First responders course… tomorrow im taking a course on AI… my boys see that in me, they practice the same things.

 

3A Stagnation or lacking growth poses only a threat to yourself, your family and your future. It is also the key to maintaining a joy LESS life. Growth can do a lot for you… and lacking in growth can also do a lot for you… but guaranteed it it will keep your son from learning what true joy is.

 

 

4. Cultivating Emotional Intelligence:

Here is a thought, men don't leave jobs they leave bosses. Emotional intelligence tells you when how and where to do that. Or it may tell you why people are leaving you? 

Emotional intelligence is crucial for building strong, meaningful relationships. Men develop self-awareness, allowing them to understand their emotions and the impact they have on others. They regulate their emotions effectively, ensuring that their reactions are appropriate and constructive. By empathizing with others, they build deeper connections and navigate social complexities with ease. Effective communication and mature conflict resolution are key aspects of this habit, fostering an environment of mutual respect and understanding.

 

4A lacking emotional intelligence

Lacking emotional intelligence means you will never know yourself, understand yourself, and or even know how to grow and get out of life's pitfalls that you created in your own life. What's the saying again- an unexamined life is not worth living.

A lack of emotional intelligence leads to a higher degree of stress, burnout, anxiety, depression. 

Have you ever talked to a young person who is at the end of their rope and life seems like it's going to end because they failed a class or the girlfriend broke up with them? They lack emotional intelligence. 

A key to building emotional intelligence in your boys is to help them look at others around their life and problems they are dealing with. Ask them how their friends got into those problems and how their friends should deal with those problems and then ask them what they would do if they got into those problems.

7 Ways to turn boys into men

Garth Heckman

TDAgiantSlayer@Gmail.com

 

7 steps to make boys men… and 7 dangers to keep them boys

Luke 2:52 

 

 

1. Taking Responsibility:

Real men understand the importance of taking responsibility for their actions and decisions. This habit goes beyond simply admitting when they are wrong; it involves owning up to the consequences of their choices and working to make amends. They don't make excuses or blame others for their circumstances. Instead, they face challenges head-on and use their experiences as learning opportunities. By taking responsibility, they build credibility and trust with others, which is foundational for any meaningful relationship. This practice fosters maturity and accountability, setting the stage for personal and professional growth.

 

 1A  Video games. These are used to escape responsibility and relationships. 

Without a great father figure it can seem impossible to live up to ones potential. You can feel overwhelmed and insecure. Enter video games. You can be a winner, you can start over, you can meet people and not really have to meet people, you can kill time…. 

You can master a video game and even stand out amongst your peers… you can’t master life. It will alwasy win in the long run. The best you can do is hope to learn as much from it as possible. 

 

 

2. Developing Self-Discipline:

Self-discipline is a cornerstone habit that men cultivate in all areas of life. They set clear, achievable goals and establish effective routines to reach them. This involves prioritizing long-term benefits over short-term pleasures, such as maintaining a healthy lifestyle, managing finances wisely, or advancing in their careers. By mastering self-discipline, they develop the ability to stay focused and resilient in the face of distractions and setbacks. This habit empowers them to make consistent progress toward their aspirations, ultimately leading to a more fulfilled and purposeful life.

 

2A Poor habits are the key to a lack of self discipline. You don’t need discipline if you have great habits, and you don’t need great habits if you choose to just drift in life. But listen you need self discipline to cement the habit, but once it is there you got it. Poor habits help you explain why you can’t control the world…so instead you choose to let it control you…. And your excuses neve make up for poor habits. You want your boy to stay a boy? Let his early life of entropy build bad habits… and you will definitely create a boy for life! 

Don't forget the Earl.

Garth Heckman 

The David Alliance

TDAgiantslayer@gmail.com

 

BAM - watch them every Tuesday night on our Facebook page.

 

August Friday and Saturday 16th 17th End times conference at HillSpring Church sponsored by The David Alliance, 

 

Matthew 25 

Parable of the Ten Bridesmaids

25 “Then the Kingdom of Heaven will be like ten bridesmaids[a] who took their lamps and went to meet the bridegroom. 2 Five of them were foolish, and five were wise. 3 The five who were foolish didn’t take enough olive oil for their lamps, 4 but the other five were wise enough to take along extra oil. 5 When the bridegroom was delayed, they all became drowsy and fell asleep.

6 “At midnight they were roused by the shout, ‘Look, the bridegroom is coming! Come out and meet him!’

7 “All the bridesmaids got up and prepared their lamps. 8 Then the five foolish ones asked the others, ‘Please give us some of your oil because our lamps are going out.’

9 “But the others replied, ‘We don’t have enough for all of us. Go to a shop and buy some for yourselves.’

10 “But while they were gone to buy oil, the bridegroom came. Then those who were ready went in with him to the marriage feast, and the door was locked. 11 Later, when the other five bridesmaids returned, they stood outside, calling, ‘Lord! Lord! Open the door for us!’

12 “But he called back, ‘Believe me, I don’t know you!’

13 “So you, too, must keep watch! For you do not know the day or hour of my return.

In the end times… don’t run out of oil 

 

If oil is so valuable  in so many ways… why would these virgins forget to take more oil… And yes in regards to the anointing of following christ - ?Why?  We get a little insight in 2 Timothy.

 

2 Tim. 4:3For the time will come when men will not tolerate sound doctrine, but with itching ears they will gather around themselves teachers to suit their own desires. 4So they will turn their ears away from the truth and turn aside to myths. 5But you, be sober in all things, endure hardship, do the work of an evangelist, fulfill your ministry.…

 

They were fooled into thinking that didn’t need oil anymore. They got tired of oil… they got Tired of Jesus… weird right, but it can happen unless you keep your life full of his oil, his anointing, his intimacy…

Why men shut down in relationships Final

WTF UP Killer

Garth Heckman the David alliance

TDAgiantslayer@Gmail.com 

 

BAM- Tonights BAM is Porn the enemy.

 

Jay cook state park…

 

Seasons in the Abyss 1990

 

 

 

Prov.15:1 A soft answer turns away wrath, But a harsh word stirs up anger.

HB answer = how you respond

Wrath - heat or rage… it escalates 

Harsh - a specific word to incite pain

Anger - Not only makes you angry but changes your countenance 

 

 

  - This is one more opportunity to lean in on Gods grace and be changed in a healthy way,,, become more like Jesus.

 

  -  remember, silence is not strength but rather cowardice and weakness. 

Why men shut down in relationships P4

Garth Heckman 

The David Alliance

TDAgiantslayer@gmail.com

 

BAM - watch them every Tuesday night on our Facebook page.

 

August Friday and Saturday 16th 17th End times conference at HillSpring Church sponsored by The David Alliance, 

 

8 reasons why you shut your mouth and quit sharing your life and struggles with your woman…

And what you can do about it… this will be a series…

 

 

  7 - if I share with you how I truly feel, and you feel attacked and turn it into an argument, I will typically never share with you on that topic again.  

 

 

  8 - you may have trauma in your life from the past, so it causes you to overreact, or read into how she responds. 

i.e. you bring it up but you don’t set the tone right, so you don’t bring it up thinking its her but its actually you who cant deal with it.

 

 

How to deal with it

  - Find a lightning rod 

  - seek spiritual counseling  

  - stay around strong Christian men

  - Challenge negative and controlling thoughts,   - embrace forgiveness  

  - We talked about this before, but again   

 

 -  remind her, there are three types of relationships. One is healthy. What is unhealthy and one is no relationship. Challenge her to choose healthy or there will be no relationship in that area. 

 

  - realize you can build confidence in confrontation. You don't need her to respond correctly in order so that you continue to speak the truth in love. But always speak the truth in love regardless of how she might accept it. This is how you build unshakable confidence.