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Wednesday Jan 24, 2024
Wednesday Jan 24, 2024
The David Alliance
Garth Heckman
a Car bug out…. Compass, firestarter, two knives, mini axe, saw, shovel, weapon, first aid kit, protein bars and trail mix, thermal blanket, binoculars, a stack of cash… etc… why? You may not be able to get to your house in a city meltdown and need to just hang out in the park, woods or hide out somewhere.
How to be a man?
WE just covered…
How to make 2024 a better launch… a better life.
But today in talking about what is in and what is out is really about being prepared…
1. Matthew 24:42-44 So you, too, must keep watch! For you don’t know what day your Lord is coming. Understand this: If a homeowner knew exactly when a burglar was coming, he would keep watch and not permit his house to be broken into. You also must be ready all the time, for the Son of Man will come when least expected.
NY times says Vaping is out, mindless phone scrolling is out, But what is in? Earlier bed times, staying hydrated and Balletcore… it is hyper feminine fashion based on what ballet performers wear… I love when my wife goes ultra feminine and I am so happy she still have the body and the looks for it. Today is her B day and she turns 58 and still looks amazing!
Fatherhood is in - Being a great dad is going to be the big stand out among cultures and the media… not that the media will honor or promote it, but having a great Dad makes the medias job (which is manipulation) very hard.
Big families are in… the best way to change the culture is through prayer and more kids.
End times and Israel is in
Checking motives… kind of like paranoia
Reacher is in
Tuesday Jan 23, 2024
Tuesday Jan 23, 2024
Garth Heckman
The David Alliance
Hey whats in? Fridges in bathrooms?
Sexy Red dresses…
Life prep…
Christian quotes about being prepared
“If you call yourself a Christian, but you live in a continuous lifestyle of sin, you’re not prepared.”
“There is always a prepared place for a prepared person.” Jack Hyles
“Depend on it, my hearer, you never will go to heaven unless you are prepared to worship Jesus Christ as God.” Charles Spurgeon
“By failing to prepare, you are preparing to fail.” Benjamin Franklin
WE just covered…
How to make 2024 a better launch… a better life.
But today in talking about what is in and what is out is really about being prepared…
1. Matthew 24:42-44 So you, too, must keep watch! For you don’t know what day your Lord is coming. Understand this: If a homeowner knew exactly when a burglar was coming, he would keep watch and not permit his house to be broken into. You also must be ready all the time, for the Son of Man will come when least expected.
What’s in what’s out
Washington Post says bathroom refrigerators are in IN 2024? Really?
a Car bug out…. Compass, firestarter, two knives, mini axe, saw, shovel, weapon, first aid kit, protein bars and trail mix… etc… why? You may not be able to get to your house in a city meltdown and need to just hang out in the park, woods or hide out somewhere.
Seeker sensitive & scripture memorization
*start here
Dedicated bible study - To many pastors are hot topic preachers…
Masculinity - own it. Be a man, have a strong opinion, disagree with people, the media, your friends… Be kind, but be a man, stick up for those in need out in public.
Demonology
End times
Spiritual warfare
Domineering women
Start here 1-22-24
Politics out - Libertarian, Republican, Democrat, independent, Maga, Socialist,
People are tired of choosing sides… they just want what is best for our country. More people are starting to see the ridiculousness of The elite and the powerful throwing out hot topics in order to bait us like fish and then gut us for their own good.
Global warming? - what about my taxes that keep skyrocketing and the national debt is out of control.
Whats in - knowing the people more than knowing the issues. Look I am a republican… but I am smart enough to study republicans and know who is right for our country…. If you can’t trust the people than it does not matter if you know the issues.
Book smart is in - knowing the facts. I love Layne Norton, PhD. On instagram follow him on Biolayne. He covers the fanatical and outrageous claims of influencers on nutrition and training. And John Dorsey Goob U2… calls out all the bs people who alter their photos and promote their work out programs…
Quit listening to the media and start listening to the facts. Turn off your phone and read a book.
Group living or compound living in - kids are moving in with their parents… YES and people are moving in with other families.
They are finding they can home school better, garden better, worship better, relationships among husbands and wives are better, kids are more well adjusted, finances are easier.
Paranoia is in
Sunday Jan 21, 2024
Sunday Jan 21, 2024
The David Alliance
Hey whats in? Fridges in bathrooms?
Sexy Red dresses…
Life prep…
Christian quotes about being prepared
“If you call yourself a Christian, but you live in a continuous lifestyle of sin, you’re not prepared.”
“There is always a prepared place for a prepared person.” Jack Hyles
“Depend on it, my hearer, you never will go to heaven unless you are prepared to worship Jesus Christ as God.” Charles Spurgeon
“By failing to prepare, you are preparing to fail.” Benjamin Franklin
WE just covered…
How to make 2024 a better launch… a better life.
But today in talking about what is in and what is out is really about being prepared…
1. Matthew 24:42-44 So you, too, must keep watch! For you don’t know what day your Lord is coming. Understand this: If a homeowner knew exactly when a burglar was coming, he would keep watch and not permit his house to be broken into. You also must be ready all the time, for the Son of Man will come when least expected.
What’s in what’s out
Washington Post says bathroom refrigerators are in IN 2024? Really?
a Car bug out…. Compass, firestarter, two knives, mini axe, saw, shovel, weapon, first aid kit, protein bars and trail mix… etc… why? You may not be able to get to your house in a city meltdown and need to just hang out in the park, woods or hide out somewhere.
Seeker sensitive & scripture memorization
*start here
Dedicated bible study - To many pastors are hot topic preachers…
Masculinity - own it. Be a man, have a strong opinion, disagree with people, the media, your friends… Be kind, but be a man, stick up for those in need out in public.
Demonology
End times
Spiritual warfare
Domineering women
Friday Jan 19, 2024
Sunday Jan 14, 2024
Sunday Jan 14, 2024
The David Alliance
How to be a man on Tuesday nights 7pm HillSpring Church Meat with Meat. Burgers and Bible.
Picking up my lunch at the drive through… that’ll be 14.37. I looked at the kid handed him a $20 and said 5.63… a few seconds go by and the kid goes hey thats the exact change… wow pretty good. I smiled and said ‘yea I took a pretty advanced math class in college”. He nodded and said ‘yeah, you can tell”.
Your competition is not out there… your only competition is you.
This generation is so divided down the line… half hate America, life is unfair, lazy, want everything handed to them…
The other half is wanting to make a name for themselves, but might lack direction or have a plan.
Proverbs 14:23 : "All hard work brings a profit, but mere talk leads only to poverty."
You will be a success simply by working hard in a world of co-horts who are too busy playing the blame game.
While everyone is taking about how hard it is, how others have a unfair advantage… look, I’m old and white so everyone thinks I have it easy… I have written 14 books… they all were hard work. I have started 89 different businesses… they all took sacrifice and were hard work.
John 15 - whoever abides in me… what is this saying to the young man who wants to succeed? Get rid of distractions. Focus on your job… but on how God wants to use you outside your job. What do I mean…. If you work hard 8 hours a day but kill 6 hours a day watching tv, video games, drinking, playing softball… etc… you are distracted from being all you can be. Cut out the distractions and if you are a welder, than work outside your job to be the smartest well rounded, biblically minded, fit welder there is.
Colossians 3:23-24 : "Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for human masters, since you know that you will receive an inheritance from the Lord as a reward.
What ever you do… Hey what job should I do? Anything you can. Get a job in the trades… chances are you will get trained on site, you will have no college debt, you will immediately have men who will mentor you and you will most likely make between 30-60 dollars… AND most trade jobs you can do side work. My son is a tile guy. He loves it. He works by himself, he puts on his iPod, he needs minimal tools and feels a sense of self fulfillment every day seeing most of his jobs finished within 8 -12 hours. He has already connected with a few other men to do side jobs. Whatever you do…. Make it your best and you will get noticed and move forward.
Matthew 24 The talents…
28 So take the talent from him and give it to him who has the ten talents. 29 For to everyone who has will more be given, and he will have an abundance. But from the one who has not, even what he has will be taken away.
If you work hard, and if you are someone who uses his job not just for money but to make God look good… you work to glorify him… you tithe, you share Christ at work, you give to those in need… God will take your talents and give you more.
Look this year I have been asked to fill 2 positions with other companies… one in firearms and protection and the other with a company that works hand in hand with fortune 500 companies…. How did I get these offers? Honestly, I served both of the CEO for years… I truly trained them in speaking, I coached them in life skills, and I was there to help make them better as men… I poured into them, solely for the reason to make them more like Jesus… and in turn they both offered me incredible positions for work on the side….
Finally… have more than two streams of income. Right now I have income coming in from 6 different books. I have incommode coming in from coaching people in life skills, I have income coming in for training people in my gym, I have income coming in from speaking around the country… and I have my Job…
Again how do I get so much done? I only do things I am gifted at and I don’t like to waste time and I built my schedule around systems. YOU CAN DO THE SAME!
Wednesday Jan 10, 2024
Wednesday Jan 10, 2024
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The David Alliance
How to make 2024 a better launch… a better life.
Honesty
Delete
Systems
Risk
Keep Jesus #1
MAKE A LIST, CHECK IT TWICE…
List all your friends
List all your goals
List all your dreams
List all your accomplishments
List all your family
List all your assets
List all your toys
List all your problems
List all your issues
List all your hurts, pains and disappointments
List everything… list it all…. And burn it.
Nothing else matters - only Jesus matters. His word, his work, his commands, his mission his life. Standing before him. His eternity, his judgement, his love, his forgiveness…
Tuesday Jan 09, 2024
Tuesday Jan 09, 2024
The David Alliance
Michigan wins the title… smoked Washington… I loved hearing Jim Harbaugh give God credit, talk about listening to the leading of the Holy Spirit…
You might doubt his integrity… but as Jesus said If they are for me… they are for me!
How to make 2024 a better launch… a better life.
Honesty
Delete
Systems
Risk
Keep Jesus #1
In 2012 Dollar shave club risked it… started by Michael Dubin… he bought a huge inventory of razors… and wanted to sell them on line… as a subscription… stupid, risky and now a company that sold for 1Billion… Risk… are you up for it!
The greatest pastors, evangelists, soul winners.. you name it. They all practiced risk. They all took chances on trusting the word of God- and when things did not turn the way they had hoped… they kept trusting and risking.
We call it faith… true, but we still need to take that step of faith which is where the risk comes in.
Why Risk?
One of the best reasons is you find your tribe. You quickly find out who you are connected to in your walk and in your calling.
Have you ever been around someone and just been bored by them? They seem like they want to live a safe, stale life… and you just don’t want to … When someone takes risks and I hear about it, I know that is a person I want to do life with.
They prayed for someone to be healed out in public.
They shared the gospel, they sacrificed money or time or both. They risked starting a ministry or business… Now I want to do life with that person. They understand what makes for a beautiful life.
Secondly Risk is the greatest and fastest door to growth in any area, but especially in your spiritual walk. When Christ says take up your cross daily, its not just seen as a sacrifice, but also a call to risk. To be like Christ, to take up your cross is to live a life of risk. We learn from mistakes… mistakes come from risk. When we choose his will over ours we must take risks. Our will- likes comfort, ease, and the dependable. For far too long too many Christians following that example have produced weak imatiated followers of Christ.
Risk is living on the edge… I like what Kurt Vonnegut Jr. said.
RISK
i WANT TO STAY AS CLOSE TO THE EDGE AS I CAN WITHOUT GOING OVER OUT ON THE EDGE YOU SEE ALL KINDS OF THINGS YOU CANT SEE FROM THE CENTER. kURT VONNEGUT JR.
Life is about experiences, memories and stories. Risk gives you a mountain of great experiences, memories and stories. I can’t tell you how many times I was faced with risk…and I would tell myself “either way, its going to be a great story”.
I was with our youth group years ago up in Minnesota by Jay Cook state park. There was a bridge there about 90 feet off the water… rapids actually. And some young guys where jumping and some were just watching. I had to do it… When I climbed up over the ledge to jump a young kid about 20 said “you are not hesitating for a second”. I replied no, the sooner I jump the sooner I can tell the story!
Finally…
Remember Jesus rewarded the risk takers not the rule keepers. Rule keepers don’t learn much of anything new, they don’t have stories to tell and they will never grow abundantly in their walk of faith.
A calm sea does not produce a skilled sailor.
Here is the best advice I can give you. Risk, faith, guts… whatever you want to call it… its simply a muscle that needs to be exercise to build. So start with smaller risks, build the muscle and go from there! You don’t start out on bench with 500 pounds… you also don’t start out by raising the dead… but at least start.
Friday Jan 05, 2024
Friday Jan 05, 2024
The David Alliance
How to make 2024 a better launch… a better life.
Honesty
Delete
Systems
Risk
Keep Jesus #1
Systems….
What are my daily systems… well first I rewrite my systems every year.
This year I have some really exciting things happening and some opportunities ahead of me. I will be helping create, run and promote a security class for churches nationwide… can’t say much yet, but its exciting. I also have just recently accepted a position with another major company speaking to churches… it is a secular company but wants me to come in and help develop some strategies for churches along dealing with generations etc…
So I always have a lot going on. I am also getting ready to launch my own app that I have been working on for about 3 years and of course I own a personal gym, I pastor a church that is growing and of course I am a husband, father and grandpa.
What you have to do is realize first that systems are always under critique. I am always tweaking my routine and my calendar or lets just call it what it is. Systems.
So what are my systems in place.
First here are the hard and fast systems that will not change.
Every Monday I hang out with my wife in bed for a few hours. We talk, we pray, we laugh, we goof off…
Mondays are not days off, but rather prep days. I use Mondays to reflect the past week, and plan the current week. Mondays are my cardio day, so I go into the gym mid morning for cardio. Monday days are prep, prayer and run errands. Monday nights are supper with the family. Monday nights are family time from 5-8 then I read and study.
Tuesdays: up at 5am. Early morning training people. Mid morning is writing, recording. Mid day is counseling, I read and pray from 1-3 then I got the gym. Supper at 5:30. Nights are studying reading and its usually on things out side of church.
Wednesday morning hang out with my wife till 8. Then I go to a coffee shop and write for 3 hours. Just about to finish my 13 book. Then to church. I read, pray. Office work, study for my sermon. Record my podcast. Work out 3-5. Skip supper, train clients from 5:30- 7:30. Night time from 8-11 is working on other jobs and projects.
Thursday morning up at 5. Training people till 9. Sermon all day long. Prayer at 1-3. Work out from 3-5. Supper at 5:30. 8-11 work on projects… maybe Bidjones, maybe the gun workshop, maybe the speaking engagements….
Friday up at 5am. Train people till 8. Friday is sermon prep. Read and pray from 1-3, Work out from 3-5. 5:30 Date night.
Saturday morning up early, train clients till 10am. Sermon prep, read and pray. Use Saturday for family, personal time or just catch up. Saturday night, study.
Sunday up at 4am. Train clients from 5-7am… yes on a Sunday. From 7:45 till 2 is church work. Work out 3—5 on Sunday. Sunday night hang with the family and do nothing.
In all of these systems I am constantly reading, constantly listening to books on my phone, Always listening to great podcasts.
Right now these systems work. Last year I was reading and praying from 4:30am till 6. But my kids moved in with us… so it was not a good system. So I changed.
Goals are great, but build systems in place and fit the goals into the systems. If you focus on goals only… you will sacrifice the natural rhythm that will give you the greatest productivity and speed to your end in mind.
*think of it this way… systems create who you are… goals only create what you are about.
Systems are lifestyles, goals are life lessons.
As James Clear says in his book Atomic Habits… great book by the way. You don to rise to the level of your goals. You fall to the level of your systems.
One system I have talked about and you would miss it in my weekly systems.. but I read a book a week. But the system I use makes it simple. I take a book divide it by 7 for the days of the week. Then I divide that number by three. A book of 200 pages divided by 7 is 29 pages. Then divide that by 3 is 9.5. So If basically if I read 9 pages at breakfast, lunch and supper I kill a book in a week. And the kicker is that these 9 pages are front and back so it is really just 4 pages… front and back.
Systems take time to build, but the save you years in the long run.
Thursday Jan 04, 2024
Thursday Jan 04, 2024
The David Alliance
How to make 2024 a better launch… a better life.
Honesty
Delete
Systems
Risk
Keep Jesus #1
Delete or eliminate in all areas of your life before you add.
You probably know the story made famous in Steven Coveys book First thing first. If you haven’t I will wrap it up quickly. A professor puts a huge jar on his desk and fills it with
Big rocks, gravel, sand and water…
Put what is most important in first.
But before some of us do that we must first dump out the sand, gravel and water.
Making the most of your year, and absolutely launching into the stratosphere for your life is usually more about deleting and eliminating things from our life… way before we add things.
I would delete goals that are not passions.
I would delete friends that do not promote your goals and ideals.
I would delete habits and routines that stall or stagnate your pursuit of better things.
I would delete books, music, movies, websites and the like that do not promote or energize your towards your goals.
I would delete what I allow myself to listen to… who I listen to.
Delete access to your productive time… I have quit feeling like I need to be available 24/7 for everyone.
Most of us know the Pareto principle. It states that 20% of our action is what produces the 80% of production. The key is to find out what is making the biggest difference in your life… and delete the other 80% of your action to make room for more of what is creating the greatest outcome.
So did Jesus practice the Pareto principle? He sure did.
He had the multitudes, he had the 120 disciples, he had 70 disciples, he had 12 disciples, he had 3 disciples, and he had one disciple.
When necessary Jesus eliminated certain people from his presence to produce the results he wanted.
We are pretty quick to ask people to make time for us, to make room for us and yet we don’t make time for ourselves. Eliminate and concentrate to launch into 2024.
Wednesday Jan 03, 2024
Wednesday Jan 03, 2024
The David Alliance
How to make 2024 a better launch… a better life.
Honesty
Delete
Systems
Risk
Keep Jesus #1
Back to honesty.
If you can’t be honest with yourself and take cues from yourself, and deal with feedback from yourself… you won’t be able to take feedback or criticism from anyone.
What else does the person who is honest do?
They ask themselves continually “what would the best version of me do? What would the best version of me say? How would the best version of me respond?
Finally ask yourself honestly “am I falling back into bad habits?”
How do you become honest with yourself?
Get in touch with your emotions and your outcome.
How do you feel about your life?
How do you feel about your actions?
How do you feel about your potential?
And then ask yourself how do you grade the outcomes of your choices, systems and habits?
This year I had a come to Jesus moment. I realized I was spending much more time in front of the TV than what I had realized. First I asked why? Well my son and daughter in law moved into my basement. My office is way in back of my office. So I have quit going down there at night to give them privacy… So I would try to work at my kitchen table… but I would end up working at my computer in front of the tv. NOT GOOD.
So how did I take that honesty and plug it in. Well I chose to get up even earlier… like 4:30. And put in more office time then. I can’t be int their way and at night I am so tired by 8/9 o’clock I don’t want to watch TV. Will it work to my advantage? Not sure, but I will HONESTLY check my lifestyle and outcomes to see if its the best option.