Why men shut down in relationships P3

Garth Heckman 

The David Alliance

TDAgiantslayer@gmail.com

 

BAM - watch them every Tuesday night on our Facebook page.

 

August Friday and Saturday 16th 17th End times conference at HillSpring Church sponsored by The David Alliance, 

 

8 reasons why you shut your mouth and quit sharing your life and struggles with your woman…

And what you can do about it… this will be a series…

 

Silence is not strength. If You choose to not deal with hurts and issues realize you are choosing the easiest thing To do -not the hardest or most brave… and definitely not the healthiest way to deal with issues. 

 

Yes we all have stuff to deal with and we all have stuff to bury… but should we?  

And Why Do we??

 

4 - you were taught to internalize things

 

Next door neighbor…. Professional athlete…baseball in the backyard

 

  5 - sometimes men don't share because they don't understand the dynamics of a healthy relationship. And maybe the partner doesn't either so they're both stuck in emotional lockdown.

 

Partners share all things in a healthy relationship.

 

The more healthy a relationship the more you share your intimate moments, details and insecurities… even sins - typically a sign of health. AND NOT just share them but work thru them.

 

  6 - Another reason is he just may not trust you. He knows you just cant keep a secret due to your own insecurities.

 

He sees you with others… they ask you (your wife) to not say anything… and you say OH I WOULD NEVER… but than you do, so im not going to say anything to you im not worried about sharing with others even if you promise me you wont.