When your wife doesn't live up to her end of the deal

Garth Heckman

TDAgiantSlayer@Gmail.com 

The David Alliance

WHAT SHOULD I LOOK FOR IN A HUSBAND?

Forbes: 10. Financial stability, 9. Good health 8. Ambitious

7. Pleasing disposition (likable) 6. Sociability 5. Intelligence

4. Wants a home and children 3. Emotional stability 2. Character and integrity 1. Looks/ IN LOVE 

 

HOW DO I FIND A WIFE?

1. Daily conversations with new prospects 2. Online dating 3. Spend time with friends friends 4. Work place 5. Reconnect with old friends. 6. Volunteer at community events. 7. Go to church or religious activities 8. Start a new hobby 9. Go to weddings 10. Go back to school 11. Expand your dating criteria

 

Genesis 2:8 Eden… the presence of God, an open door, its not a place it is a state of being.

  *man was created to be in the presence of God.

 

Where did Eve meet Adam? IN THE PRESENCE OF GOD.

 

 

  -  Many women meet a man who is not in the presence of God and want to marry him and make him a man who wants to be in the presence of God… NO NO NO NO - it does not work that way. 

 

 

 

THEN… 

God gave man work before a woman…. He had a job before he got a woman. So men if you want a woman, 

 - GET INTO THE PRESENCE OF GOD

  -  get a job. 

     -   AND BECOME FRUITFUL…

          -    AND LEARN TO BE A PROTECTER 

HE WAS TO PROTECT THE GARDEN… HIS SPACE, HIS PLACE 

 

**All of these were active in Adams life before he was given Eve. 

 

 

Woman if you are looking at a man… 

DOES HE WALK IN THE PRESENCE OF GOD? 

Does he have a job? 

AND IS HE FRUITFUL…

IS HE A PROTECTOR… IS HE DANGEROUS? 

IS HE LIVING THIS? Than he is man material. 

GEN. 2:15 PROTECT THE GARDEN… FOR WHO? For his future Eve?

 

***Then God said it is not good for man to be alone….

Ahhhh - don’t miss the point - if the man does not have these in place, it would be better for him to be alone…. Until he has those other things in place. BOOM!