Relation-Shop. Ex-communicate, before you communicate with your Ex.

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4. Week 3 - Communication = how to fight- 1st, it’s not a fight. It’s not about winning.

 

- Persue'er - Distancer (P= learn to connect without smothering, D= realize without connection P’s will just up and leave) 

- Culture of appreciation

- Don’t just Understand- FEEL, then MAYBE advise

- Put feelings into words, pictures, stories or metaphors

- Ask open ended questions (say I and not YOU)

- Express empathy or validation -stay soft

• PRACTICE - timing

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