Cheat Code to being a Manly Man

The David Alliance

 

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Here is the strategy for a well made man of God

personal relationship with X

Understanding your life mission and goal (and possibly your life verse)

personal systems to operate ones life at its highest level

including systems for spouse, kids, church, faith, job

Learning how to handle finances

learning how to respond to hardships and difficult people

Learning how to be a man…Husband, father, son and a rockstar in your local church. 

But there is a cheat code…

You can do all this, and I highly recommend it, You could read books on all of this… and I have and I do. But here is the cheat code that is missing in todays world.

Hanging around manly men… hanging around men of God.

I have talked about how here in the US we are were we are at do to the breakdown of the family… the lack of fathers and especially the lack of Godly fathers in the home. If you have no Dad, if you have a lousy Dad, if you have a Dad that is not a strong man of faith… use the cheat code - hang around other Godly men.

I saw a drunk man wanting to harm his wife and my Dad took him out and threw him up against a car until the cops came.

I saw a man call out a young man who had gone to far with his daughter…

I saw a men climb into a fight between 2 women and break it up while others watched.

I saw a man who every day before work started he sat in his truck for 45 minutes and read his bible and pray

I saw men who were ridiculed for their faith stand and take it and still love those who hate on them

I saw men stand in the center of the UW madison campus and preach the gospel

I have seen many men sacrifice money, time their jobs in order to live for God….

I have seen men leave unGodly friendships

I have seen men break up with beautiful smoking hot women because they were not who God wanted them to date…

I have seen men stick with their wives after having an affair

I have seen men love their kids when they spit in their face and blamed their dads for their own self inflicted wounds

Sure I could have read books, I could have watched youtube videos, I could have worked out a lot of this on my own by personal study… but I cheated by hanging out with MEN, men of God. Manly men… men who were not afraid to stand for what is right even in the midst of a hailstorm of hate and accusations….

here is the bonus… My dad is a manly man of God and because of that he attracted other manly men of God who had influence on me

And now I am trying to be that man for others… and attract manly men into my life for the sake of my own sons! 

So here are a few clues on finding the man to mentor you… these are not written in stone, but they will help.

 1- Go to a church that has a manly senior pastor… like attracts like. 

 - 2 Find Godly men who do manly things… Muai Tai, Ju jitsu, hunting, 

 - 3 Find Godly men who have manly jobs… mechanic, police officer, work in the military, Construction…

 - 4 Find men who are active in ministry. 

 - 5 go to a mens bible study and seek out the person there who has been the Xn the longest

Now what does scripture say

1 Timothy 6:11 “But as for you, O man of God, flee these things. Pursue righteousness, godliness, faith, love, steadfastness, gentleness.”    

1 Corinthians 16:13 “Be watchful, stand firm in the faith, act like men, be strong.”

Prov. 27:17 “As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another”. 

Being with men will teach you to run from some things, How to act and be strong and understand that sharpening is uncomfortable.