5 things a wife must do to save her Husband and Marriage

 

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INTRO: you could easily take the next 5-8 podcasts and throw me under the bus… so listen to my heart, listen to all of the podcasts and wait for the last final podcast on this topic before you judge. 

 

5 Things a Godly woman does for her husband.

Respect

Love

Honor

Serve 

Submit

*and what’s their problem if they can’t do these 5 things.

*A mans responsibility to make it easier

 

The woman who hated her husband and wanted to divorce him. She went to a lawyer… how much do you hate him, do you want him to suffer…

Conclusion

Why would I ever divorce such a loving amazing man

 

Nancy Anderson wrote an amazing article for Crosswalk regarding loving your husband through respect. She states she and her husband were on the brink of divorce…and he was argumentative, defensive and angry… but she realized he was only that way because of her lacking respect and being controlling. She was convicted and came up with 3 things that I don’t think I can improve on.

VIP

Verbal respect: pull back on arguing, complaining and pointing out what is lacking and add more compliments, verbal affection

Verbal respect is like the seasoning in your marriage

 

I intellect

Respect your husbands intellect. How many women treat their husbands like they are just stupid. They speak and act with disdain towards him. 

Men want to fix things… let them. Thank them for their opinion and then let them know how you feel afterwards and that you will think and pray over their thoughts. 

Instead of telling them their wrong, ask them KINDLY to explain their opinion or ideas behind what they say. *truth be told there is very very very little that is actually right or wrong… its always a matter of opinion. Women do not disrespect your husband intellectually just because his opinion is different… its not wrong, just different. 

 

P is for Physical

Respect your husband physically. 

How you look… yes your physical appearance,

How you take care of his physical needs (laundry, cooking, how the kids are taken care of)

Physical as in sexual needs. 

 

Ladies, if you are listening… there are a lot of men out there who are trying,,,, sincerely trying… they are not perfect - they are burning out… they won’t leave you - but they are checking out mentally, emotionally, physically… not out of hate or bitterness, but out of self preservation. Their fuel is respect, it feeds them… and you are not giving it to them and they are pulling back just in order to survive.